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Bangkok Sex Guide For Singles And Couples

Bangkok is one of the most popular tourist destinations in the world. You’ll find people from all over the world to mingle with.

This is why in this Bangkok sex guide we’re going to arm you with all the info you need to make the most out of your stay.

We’ll cover a wide range of topics including the local hookup culture, kink scene along with some tips to help you find sex without paying for it.


This Bangkok sex guide was last updated on 15 July 2022

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Bangkok is a massive city with all sorts of entrainments and fantastic nightlife.

The hook-up culture is well present in the city and you won’t have difficulties finding casual sex or getting into an intimate relationship.

Couples can enjoy sensual massages whether they prefer to have male or female masseurs… And there is also the option to play with ladyboys (transgender) too.

So continue reading if you’d like to experience sexual encounters and nightstands in Bangkok.


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Girls in Bangkok

Girls in Bangkok come in all shapes, forms and colors. The reason is the capital attracts women from all over the kingdom thanks to the numerous universities and job opportunities.


Look And Physical Appearance

The majority of Bangkok women you’ll meet have black straight hair and black eyes.

However, the native girls have a lighter skin tone than the Thai ladies who come here from other provinces.

Girls in Bangkok aren’t that tall, typically around 5’2-5’3 feet. Many have slim figures.


Attitude And Values

Being one of the warmest women in Asia, Bangkok girls are kind, welcoming, and smiling. You’ll quickly notice that they’re friendly and easy to talk to.

This is why the easiest approach to bed them is to exchange digits and send a first text message which is exciting.

Thai girls generally have a respectful and polite nature. In fact, it’s rare for them to express negative feelings in public as they’re regularly cheerful.

Contrary to the general beliefs, girls in Bangkok approach relationships seriously as they tend to marry in their mid-20s.



Despite being traditional, 50% of women in Bangkok have a positive attitude regarding casual sex according to this study. They see sex as a natural need like eating and sleeping.

Many girls don’t engage in casual sex to avoid unwanted pregnancy and also to stay focused on their studies. In fact, there are many virgins among university girls.

If you want to find a young and intelligent girlfriend with an open mind forward sex, the best way is to use you’re better off by using a sugar dating site.


Summary of Bangkok Girls

  • 3 traits: Bangkok women are kind, friendly, and polite.
  • 2 tips: To charm girls in Bangkok, dress nicely, like you’re financially stable, and be confident. Also make sure to know how to ask for a hook up.
  • 1 fact: Several Bangkok girls have a preference for dating Caucasian men.


Men in Bangkok

The men in Bangkok are polite and gentle, yet they are confident and business-minded.


Look and Physical Appearance

Bangkok men ordinarily have dark eyes and hair like all Thai men in the country. The only difference is they have a whiter skin tone and Chinese look.

When it comes to the body, you’ll find men in Bangkok be taller than the average Thais.

Their overall look is low-key yet in style, and they go for smart-casual or semi-casual get-ups.


Attitude and Values

Although known for being shy, Bangkok men are also attentive and funny. Even during tough times, they can still crack a joke and laugh about it.

They have a laid-back outlook and focus more on enjoying the moment instead of worrying about the future.

Unlike the women, many of them just want to keep things casual. And once married, they usually have a lover known as Mia Noi (minor wife).

This means Thai men here are generally unfaithful and may change after sleeping with you.



Men in Bangkok start having sex at 13. By the time they reach 19, 57.9% of Bangkok guys are already sexually active.

They enjoy intimacy but they focus more on their pleasure rather than their sex partner.


Summary of Bangkok Men

  • 3 traits: Bangkok guys are funny, laid-back, and patient.
  • 2 tips: To get Bangkok men’s attention, use natural-looking makeup and dress stylishly but conservatively.
  • 1 fact: Due to their culture, it’s normal for men in Bangkok to have secret sex partners.


Sex Life And Hookup Culture

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Even with their conservative culture, the locals in Bangkok are having casual sex and actively looking for sex partners.

Since it contradicts their customs, they don’t talk about it.


Overall Mindset About Casual Sex

Bangkok people are promiscuous and sex on the first date is very common.

Yet, in public, you won’t see any display of affection. They just want to maintain an image and not look easy.

But once behind closed doors, sex is expected.


Swinger Activities in Bangkok

Though paying for sex is common in brothels, there are strict rules against sexual activities that extend to swinger gatherings. As a result, there aren’t any legal swinger clubs in the city.

This is why those who want to swing or have a threesome, the only way is to get to know Bangkok’s members on Adult Friend Finder. There you’ll find a welcoming community of horny singles and couples that organize sex parties regularly.


Is It Easy To Hook Up in Bangkok?

Finding partners here is easy since Bangkok’s residents like hooking up. In recent years hooking up online is become the favorite way to find sex partners.


Where to Meet People For Sex in Bangkok

Bangkok is considered to be one of the most popular cities in Asia for sex enthusiasts alongside Singapore.

The reason is the large influx of tourists and expats that enjoy an active sexual lifestyle.

Let’s dive in and explore some of the best places and ways to get laid in Bangkok…


1. Sex Dating Online

Visiting nightclubs and bars is a good way to get laid in Bangkok. However, signing up on adult dating sites is much better.

Sites like Asian Match Mate are crowded with horny singles and couples.

But don’t forget to make it clear that you are looking for hookups and not paid sex.


2. Nightclubs and Bars

Bangkok has a bustling nightlife that is full of both dancing and drinking venues that offer plenty of hookup opportunities.

Let’s look at some of the best bars and nightclubs to hook up in Bangkok for singles:

• Glow Club – Located at 96/4 Soi Sukhumvit 23, this is one of the leading underground nightclubs in Bangkok.

• Onyx Club – Located at Royal City Avenue Rama IX Rd, if you want to party in a spacious nightclub with high-class people this should be your destination.

• Sky Bar – Located at Si Lom District, this is one of the top bars in Bangkok due to its astonishing night view and elite service.

• The Bamboo Bar – Located at 48 Oriental Ave, if you want to enjoy a great 1950s ambiance with a classy setting and amazing drinks then this bar will live up to your expectations.

• NOIZ Nightclub – Located on the 1st floor of the Liberty Plaza Building, this crazy nightclub is going to give you a taste of Bangkok’s true nightlife experience.

• Black Cabin Bar – Located at Rama IV Rd, a great bar if you want to meet older women.

It’s easy to convince mature married women to sleep with you if you approach them with discretion.

There are four major nightlife districts where all the partying takes place: Thonglor, Royal City Avenue, Khao San Road, and Sukhumvit Road.

To flirt and pick up locals we suggest heading to Thonglor and Royal City Avenue. 

Alternatively, if you want to mingle with foreigners, then Khao San Road is a backpacker area with plenty of parties.

Or head to Sukhumvit Road but stay away from the red light areas like Nana and Soi Cowboy.


3. Strip Clubs

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Bar girls in Dollhouse strip club in Bangkok

There are numerous strip clubs in Bangkok where you can enjoy topless dances and even full nude shows. They are called “Go-Go Bars” instead of strip clubs but you can expect a similar atmosphere like in the West.

With that being said, here are the top strip clubs in Bangkok worth visiting:

• The Crazy House – Located at Soi Sukhumvit 23, if you want to enjoy a naked striptease, then this strip club is a must-visit for those who are in Bangkok.

• Pegasus Grand – Also located at Soi Sukhumvit 23, this club has a royal ambiance and has been around for more than 25 years.

• The Dollhouse – Located at Soi Cowboy, from tabletop dancing to stripteases, this strip club usually has around 12 girls rotating to keep you entertained.

Keep in mind that the strip clubs in Bangkok are whore houses in disguise. A better and cheaper alternative to enjoy sexy shows is to use a site like StripChat.


4. Trans Friendly Gay Venues

Bangkok is one of the most rainbow friendly cities in Asia. It offers a thriving nightlife for the LGBT community and there are several spots to hook up with transgender people in Bangkok.

For starters, Cockatoo is a bar located at Soi Cowboy which is solely dedicated to ladyboys. Alternatively, you could visit the Obsession Bar that is located on the ground floor of the Nana Plaza.

However, Soi Cowboy and Nana Plaza are red light areas. This means the ladyboys working there are prostitutes.

If you want to find genuine ladyboys in Bangkok to hook up or get into an intimate relationship just use any popular trans dating sites.


5. Sex Clubs: Swinging And Sex Parties In Bangkok

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There are plenty of sex parties held privately around Bangkok. Just get to know Bangkok’s members on AFF to get an invitation to a sex party.

It’s the most popular site for swingers with a large user base so you won’t be short on choices.

The swinger community here is friendly, clean and welcoming. Just bring some booze and you’ll have a great time.


5. BDSM in Bangkok

The people of Bangkok do not restrict themselves when it comes to fetish and bondage activities.

In fact, there are a couple of fetish clubs in Bangkok with one of the most popular being Bar Fetish Club. It is located in the famous nightlife area of Patpong, has 3 playrooms, and attracts both local and foreign BDSM enthusiasts.

Apart from that, if you want to connect with a large community of BDSM lovers, then you can also use


6. Hookups During The Day

Bangkok is one of those rare cities where the daytime hookup game is pretty solid.

The high number of singles here makes it quite easy for you to find some action as long as you visit the right places.

Ideally, you would want to start from the Siam BTS train station since it has some of the biggest malls in the city like Siam Paragon and Central World. 

Plenty of traffic here where you can easily meet both locals and foreigners.

Alternatively, popular public areas like the Lumphini Park and even subway stations can be great places to spark conversations with strangers.

Lastly, if you want to mingle with younger people and students, head to Bangkok University.


Sugar Daddies & Sugar Babies in Bangkok

Bangkok is famous for its sex tourism so it isn’t surprising that the majority of the people here are only interested in hooking up.

As exciting as casual sex can be, wouldn’t your stay become so much more memorable if you can get quality companionship.

A person who doesn’t only get in the sheets with you but also offers quality conversations. Just imagine spending time with a smart and young lady…

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Don’t worry, we aren’t recommending you to get into a traditional relationship. There is too much drama and baggage in those.

Instead having a sugar relationship is a better way to get intimacy and companionship without dealing with unreasonable demands and jealousy.

Sugar relationships are quite common in Bangkok and the city is swarming with sugar daddies and sugar babies.

The easiest way to meet a sugar baby or daddy is to use sites like Sugar Daddy Meet. Be clear about your needs, and you’ll find someone suitable in no time.


Best Places for Outdoor Sex

We’ve already written up about exciting places to have sex outdoor in general.

And when in Bangkok, start out in these places:

• Lumphini Park – Huge park where you’ll find more than enough secluded areas. But keep in mind that it closes at 9 pm.

• Benchakitti Park – Less crowded compared to other parks in the city. So you may even get some privacy during day time.

• Suan Luang Rama IX – The largest park in the city so you can at least find a corner to make out.

Central World – One of the largest malls in the world with plenty of fitting rooms and public toilets to have a quicky.

Central World Bangkok


Best Hostels And Sex Hotels in Bangkok

Party hostels are a great place to get laid as people get drunk and want to fuck. While an erotic hotel can hit up the atmosphere if you plan to have casual sex with singles and couples.

Thus, let’s look at some of the best party hostels in Bangkok where you can potentially find sex:

Mad Monkey Hostel

NapPark Hostel

Holy SHEET Hostel

Alternatively, here are some erotic hotels in Bangkok for you to spend some intimate time with your partner or fuck buddy:

Banana State Hotel

• Love Villa Hotel

Ramada Plaza


Safe Sex and Clinics in Bangkok

Bangkok offers an exciting sex life, but at the same time, your sexual health should always come first.

Protected sex can help you avoid some major headaches like STDs and unwanted pregnancies.

If you need an STD test, you can visit the Maximum Performance Wellness Centre and Pulse Clinic.

I hope this Bangkok sex guide is been useful. Enjoy the city.


  • Louise And Dan

    We are born and bred Californians who love socializing, adventures, and sex. Being active in the ethical non-monogamy communities here locally and online, it's only natural for us to start this site to provide a 100% honest source of information about the sexual lifestyle in some of the world’s liberated adult destinations. We spend most of our free time traveling to hook up with singles, couples, and people of all genders around the world.