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6 Best Ways To Hook Up (And How To Do It Properly)

Do you see your friends getting laid left and right but fail to find any action yourself?

You might be thinking that you’re unlucky, however, we highly doubt that’s the case.

Sure, luck does play a small role, but ultimately, it’s more about being at the right places and making the right moves.

So if you’re trying to make your sex life more thrilling, in this article not only will we be talking about the best ways to hook up, but also share some tips on how to do it properly.


6 Best Ways to Hookup Regularly

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1. Use Hook Up Apps and Sites

Getting yourself out there is the key to scoring hookups. We know, you’re now probably thinking that you lack the confidence to mingle in public.

Well, we’re not asking you to flirt with strangers in bars and nightclubs.

You can simply make use of modern technology and connect with the world from the comfort of your home.

There are several hook up apps and sites nowadays that can help you do that. The only thing you need to do is create an interesting profile for hookups, and you’re good to go!


2. Sign Up With Affair Sites

Aside from hooking up, even if you want to start an affair, you can follow what we said above. It doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship or even married.

Yet, in case you’re married and signing up on hook up sites feels too risky for you, then there are also plenty of affair sites.

The advantage of affair sites over hook up apps is they are designed to offer better privacy. In other words, it’s less likely that someone you know might recognize you.

Check out our latest article on how to hook up online anonymously.


3. Place Classified Ads

As we mentioned above, the more you put yourself out there, the higher your chances of scoring a hook up.

Well, you can also take this in a literal way and place an online ad on classified sites.

It might sound weird, but it actually works. That’s the reason you’re going to find several ads posted on classified sites every day.

While most of those people are searching for dates, there are no restrictions on posting for hookups either.


4. Increase Your Network

Most of the people who get laid regularly have one thing in common – their network.

Usually, it’s not even complete strangers they’re hooking up with. In most cases, it’s someone from their circle or a person who they met through a mutual friend.

If not that, then perhaps, it’s a stranger who they got drunk with at a party and banged afterward.

So the point is, increasing your network can also increase your chances of getting laid. And it’s definitely the best way to go if you want to find a friend with benefits.

You don’t necessarily have to visit bars to grow your circle. It could be a club in your university or even the gym.

Just don’t miss out on the opportunity to interact with as many people as you can.

We know, this probably might be too challenging if you’re introverted. That’s why you can instead talk to strangers on online forums and meet them once you feel comfortable enough.


5. Visit a Sex Club

Visiting a sex club almost guarantees that you’d get laid. But note that the keyword here is “almost”.

Keep in mind that, paying to enter a swinger club isn’t equivalent to paying to have sex. You still have to interact with people and create a sexual connection.

Unless it’s an orgy party where everyone gets wild.

Having said that, the major benefit of sex clubs is that you can network with many open-minded people.

If it’s your first time attending, it’s essential to be aware of rules for swingers. In this video, the owner of a sex club answers the most common questions newbies have about going to a swinger’s club…

Lastly, if you’re wondering where to find swinger clubs, then check out the “Sex Clubs: Swinging And Sex Parties” section in our world city sex guides.


6. Stay In Hostels While Travelling

If you’re looking for hookups, then there’s no point spending hundreds of dollars in fancy hotels. The reason you don’t get an easy opportunity to interact with other guests.

On the other hand, hostels offer plenty of opportunities to meet and party with new people. Most hostels are primarily social environments and secondary accommodations.

If you’re outgoing and fun to be around, you’ll get hooked up in a hostel.


How to Initiate and Hookup Properly

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1. Be a Fun Person to Be Around

If you blatantly ask a stranger for sex, then the odds are that you’d get rejected 99% of the time.

But if you initiate a conversation with them in a fun, yet flirtatious way, then you’ll certainly have a greater chance of getting what you want.

So the key takeaway from this is to show some personality.

Be a fun person to be around, and it would automatically attract the people around you.


2. Clearly State Your Desires

Being fun doesn’t mean that you should be unclear about your intentions.

You don’t want the other person to think that you’re interested in dating them and starting a relationship.

So combine the best of both worlds by learning to ask for a hook up in a funny way.


3. Use the Nudge Technique

The nudge technique is a psychological way to indirectly influence a person’s behavior.

If you’re confident enough, then it can help you can get laid without even asking for it.

For instance, if you’re trying to hook up with a girl, then invite her for a drink.

Once she’s at your home, tell her that your bed is more comfortable than the couch. And you just want to “chill” with her.

After that, let nature play its course. The sexual tension would be so high that she might end up making a move herself without you even asking for it.




  • Louise And Dan

    We are born and bred Californians who love socializing, adventures, and sex. Being active in the ethical non-monogamy communities here locally and online, it's only natural for us to start this site to provide a 100% honest source of information about the sexual lifestyle in some of the world’s liberated adult destinations. We spend most of our free time traveling to hook up with singles, couples, and people of all genders around the world.