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11 Body Language Signs He Wants You Bad

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Actions speak louder than words – you’ve probably heard this phrase before.

Well, we couldn’t agree more with it, especially if you’re trying to figure out whether a guy wants you badly.

There’s no denying the fact that the body language of a person acts as a gatekeeper to their inner thoughts.

He might be making big or small gestures to display interest that you aren’t aware of. But it isn’t always clear if he wants you sexually or if he is over-friendly.

So how do you know if a guy wants you badly?

If you want to know what’s going on in his mind, then here are some strong body language signs that he wants you bad.


1. He Find Opportunities to Touch You

If a guy wants you badly sexually then he’ll be attracted to your body like a magnet. He’d find ways or even create opportunities to touch you.

It could be just a simple pat on the back, shoulder, or even your head. It could even be something playful like challenging you to a thumb wrestling match.

All of this usually makes it pretty obvious that he’s into you. After all, the main reason guys initiate physical contact with a girl is to build attraction.

He might even be testing the limits and assessing how comfortable you’re to his touch before he can make a move.


2. He Can’t Stop Looking at You

Eye contacts are pretty normal when you’re having a one-to-one conversation with a person.

However, this video by TopThink sums it up really well that it’s more about when, how and where he looks…

Does he lock eyes with you even when you’re sitting in the other corner of the room? Or if he isn’t confident enough then he might be stealing glances at you from time to time.

So make sure to observe what his eyes are doing because the eyes are the window to the soul.


3. He Gets an Erection When He’s Around you

We know, you probably didn’t see this one coming – or rather, rising. But hey, his tool is very much also a part of his body.

And if he’s getting a boner every time he’s around you, then you can only imagine how much he’s craving for you.

You might not be able to tell that when he’s wearing jeans. But if he has a trouser on, then you now know where to look for the secret sign he wants you bad.


4. He Flexes His Muscles In Front of You

Girls are attracted to physical health and muscles are a reflection of that. This is one of the reasons why you see so many guys hitting the iron nowadays.

While this may not always be the case, there’s a huge chance that if a guy is flexing his guns in front of you, then he likes you.

Of course, there are always exceptions and he might just be fishing compliments.

But one thing is for sure, he wants to impress you with the effort he has been putting in.


5. His Pupil Dilates When Talking to You

Did you know that our pupils dilate when we are looking at something that we like?

You’ve probably understood where we are going with this…So, does it happen while he’s talking to you? If yes, then take it as a cue of sexual or social interest.

But if you don’t see it, then no worries, you can ignore this. It can be a bit hard to determine, especially if the lighting in the room is dim or very bright.

Disclaimer: Please don’t start measuring the size of his pupils, you don’t want to creep him out.


6. He Puts His Arm Around You

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Wrapping an arm around a girl’s shoulder is a friendly sign of interest.

Yet, when he also touch your breast with the hanging arm then you should know the guy wants you badly.

Basically is telling you: let’s fuck. There is no doubt about it.

In this case, start flirting with him by holding his hand without making it too easy to play with your sensitive body parts.

Otherwise, he might assume you’re an easy girl. That is the main reason why guys want just to hook up with you if you’re the type of girl that lets men play around.


7. He Fidgets a Lot While Talking to You

Fidgeting random things when you’re talking to someone is often a sign of nervousness.

Women usually start playing with their hair when they’re talking to a guy they’re interested in.

On the other hand, men would start fidgeting with anything they see close to them. It could be a coin, a bottle cap, or the button of their shirt.

Pay close attention if he’s doing any of that, it might be his way of channeling his nervousness while he’s with you.


8. He Faces and Sits Near You in a Group Setting

How a guy acts around a girl in group settings says a lot about him. Try observing if he tries sitting near you and faces in your direction.

In case he does, he’s most likely trying to know more about you but lacks the confidence to approach when you’re alone.

Try starting a conversation, we’re pretty sure that he’ll give you his undivided attention.


9. He’s Trying to Maintain a Confident Posture

Does he have a slouched posture but he puffs up his chest while he’s around you?

It usually happens subconsciously when men are trying to impress a girl.

The reason for that is he probably wants to look manlier and more confident to catch your attention.

So it’s more of a natural response from his body to stand out among the competition.


10. His Hugs are Unusually Long

There’s nothing wrong with hugging a friend, but it also depends on the type of hug.

When you’re hugging the opposite gender, the hug should not generally last more than 3 seconds.

If his hugs are unusually long, or if he asks for a hug quite frequently, then it’s a clear sign that he finds you irresistible.


11. He Acts Protective About You

Most men have this overprotective dad mode inside of them which often triggers when they’re with a girl they like.

It could be anything like making sure you don’t walk on the edge of the sidewalk, or looking after you in activities like cycling.

But beware that if he’s doing any of these things around you, then he might look for something more than just a casual fling.




  • Ashley Miller

    Ashley Miller is a Dating Coach and author for She teaches women how to deal with self-esteem and insecurities issues and how to flirt, have casual hookups, or get into a serious relationship. She has many years of personal coaching experience and is particularly passionate about helping people to find dating success regardless of race or gender. You will find her cooking delicious pies, enjoying a book, or playing skying in her free time.