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10 Most Common Signs Of A Flirting Married Man

There are chronic married men that love flirting with women while others are flirt only when they meet a special girl.

But unlike single guys, those with wives can’t be open about it for obvious reasons. Due to this, women may not quickly recognize if a married man is flirting with them.

And if you end up having the wrong idea, you may end up embarrassing yourself. On top of that, you might offend him too.

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To stop that situation from happening, we’ve come up with a list of sure signs that a married man is flirting with you.


1. He Gives You Special Attention

It’s typical for people to act differently to someone they like. Guys, in particular, tend to act like a hero in front of the girl they’re into.

In fact, he’ll want to impress her and will help with every little thing. Whereas he’ll be his usual selves when he deals with others.

So if you start to notice a married man that gives you special attention, it’s a sign that he wants you.

Perhaps he is your boss and it helps you to get a promotion or bonus. Or it’s your instructor and gives you extra time after training only to you.

The situations are too many to write about it, but you got the point.


2. He Privately Messages You About Personal Topics

Everybody knows that a man with a wife has no business in wanting to know all about your life. Besides, he should be busy with work and taking care of his family, shouldn’t he?

In any event, when he privately messages you about personal topics, it’s a sure sign that a married man is flirting with you.

And if the topics turn sexual, it’s a sure sign a married man wants to sleep with you.


3. He’ll Talk Negatively About Your Partner

It won’t matter whether you’re in a relationship or just dating around. If he’s interested in you, he won’t like any of the guys that you’re seeing.

As a result, he’ll think of them as rivals and want them out of the picture. In his eyes, he’s the only match for you.


4. He Always Puts His Hands On You

There are naturally touchy people out there, but usually, most of them hold back, especially when they’re in a professional setting.

Yet, a strong sign a married man is sexually attracted to you is when he wants to have physical contact. It’s his way to flirt with you and show that he is interested.

Why else would he want to keep on touching a woman that’s not his wife?

Therefore, when you notice that he always puts his hands on you, it’s a solid sign that he is flirting with you.


5. He’ll Hide His Ring From You

While there are men who don’t wear their wedding rings, most of them do.

As such, a married man is clearly flirting with you if he starts to hide his ring when you’re talking to him.

Plus, with no ring on his finger, it’ll make it a bit easier for him to make you forget he’s taken. And also that gesture helps him to forget to have a wife.

Try don’t judge him, as Micheal says in this video: “he is missing something in his relationship”…


6. He Always Reaches Out To You

In this article by Live Science, researchers declare that being in love is similar to having a drug addiction.

This is why you’ll be on a guy’s mind all the time when he’s into you.

In light of this, you can be certain that always reaching out to you is a sign that a married man wants you.

At this point, he’s practically obsessing over you and won’t be able to stop thinking about you.


7. He Doesn’t Want To Talk About His Wife

Have you observed that he doesn’t want to talk about his wife when you’re within earshot? Or that when you ask about her, he seems uncomfortable?

If these are the sort of things that you’ve become aware of, then it’s indeed a sign he cares for you.

The thing is, he should be happy to tell people about his family, right?

But since this will add to the gap between you two, he’ll avoid the topic as much as possible.


8. He’s Protective Of You

An easy-to-tell sign that a married man cares about you is when he’s protective. This doesn’t mean you have to face danger, though. You just have to look at how he acts.

Does he offer to drive you home when it’s late? Or does he take your side when you argue with someone?

If he does these things and more to help you out, then you can bet that he’s interested in you.


9. He’ll Express How Unhappy His Marriage Is

People, in general, don’t want to share their issues since they don’t want to be looked down on by others.

However, when a married man expresses how unhappy his marriage is to you, he is communicating that he is available.

In this case, he may be trying to gain your sympathy to win you over with his sob story. Not to mention, he can boost your ego as well by badmouthing his wife.


10. He Wants To Be Alone With You

Do you know how a married guy can slowly worm his way into your heart? It’s actually simple – he just has to spend time with you.

To do this, he’ll take every opportunity to be alone with you.

By doing this, he can present himself to you as a person and appeal to you as a man. In turn, it’ll affect your view of him and potentially overshadow his image as a husband and coworker.


What To Do When A Married Man Is Flirting With You?

If you’re seriously eager to sleeping with a married man, you should limit it to a one-night stand. Anything more than that isn’t safe.

The reason is you have a lot to lose and little to gain by getting involved in an affair with someone’s husband.

Your reputation is at stake. If people in your community will find out, you’ll be labeled like a woman who ruins families.

In the case the affair is with your boss and the company finds out, you might even get fired if they think you got special treatment.

As you can see you have a lot to lose. And for the gain? Besides the good sex, hardly a married man will leave his family for you.

And if he does that, it’s a clear sign that you can’t rely on him.

All things considered, you’re better off with single guys.




  • Peter Brown

    Dr. Peter Brown is a dating and sex expert that writes for several various publications. Having got his doctorate from Yala Univeristy and operating his own clinic, he has a vast knowledge about casual relationships involving married people. He likes to play golf and spend time with his children during weekends.