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9 Most Common Signs Of A Flirting Married Woman (And What To Do About It)

You’ve met a married woman and she seems to be interested in you. You are joking, teasing, and having a great time.

There is sexual tension and are convinced she is flirting with you.

But then you learn that she is married, and now you feel confused about all the situation.

Is she flirting with you? Or just misreading the situation?

married woman flirting signs with a young guy

Despite being in a committed relationship, married women flirt for all sorts of reasons. Perhaps she wants to know if she is still attractive or just wants to hook up with you.

In this guide, we’ll teach you what signs to be aware of a flirtatious married woman plus what to do if she is.


1. She Playfully Teases You

While this might sound childish, playfully teasing is a strong sign that a married woman is flirting with you.

It’s the best way to get your attention and keep you hooked up in the conversation. By joking around like this, she can have a fun time with you, all under the excuse of being friendly.

Due to this, she can keep doing it even when there are people around you guys.


2. She Gives You Longer Eye Contact

It’s natural for people to look at the person they’re talking to since it’s rude not to.

Yet, when a married woman gives you longer eye contact than what’s needed, there’s a chance that she’s flirting with you.

In addition, she’s likely letting you know that she’s into you through her eyes. She’s basically staring at you in the open at this point.

Be aware of confident women who look you in the eyes for a longer time. Confirm this by observing how she look at other people.


3. She Lets You Know She Is Staring At You

Let me ask you something. It’s normal to check out the person you’re interested in, isn’t it? But do people let themselves get caught if they want to hide it? No, right?

So when a married woman is interested in you, she’ll stare. But when she gets also caught, that is an invitation to make a move on her.

At this point would be better if you know how to convince a married woman to sleep with you if you don’t want to miss out on the opportunity.


4. She Talks To You First

Young girls like the excitement that comes with being chased. In fact, she’ll wait for you to make a move.

But for married women that isn’t an option. She is already taken and has to make the first move to let him know about her interest.

In this case, she’ll take the initiative and will talk to you first. Unless you’re at work and she approaches because of work-related matters, you can take it as a solid sign that she’s flirting with you.


5. She Moves Closer To You

We all have our own personal space that we don’t want to share with outsiders. And when someone gets too close, most people would choose to change seats or even move to keep the distance.

With this in mind, one of the biggest signs that a married woman is flirting with you is if she moves closer to you when there’s space available.

Psychology Today’s article cements this statement further. It stresses that people only let those that they like within their intimate space, which is 0-18 inches around their body.


6. She Uses Her Body To Get Your Attention

Faithfull married women tend to be conservative in their gestures. But when a married woman uses her body to get attention, she is basically flirting with you.

Watch out if around you she behaves more feminine than usual. Signs like walking with her butt and chest out to emphasize her assets and curves to you.

She’ll also seduce you by flashing her legs in short dresses or by hiking up her skirts when she’s with you.


7. She Bites or Licks Her Lips When Talking To You

A married woman who desires you will be biting or licking her lips during your chats with her. That is a clear sign she wants to sleep with you, not just flirting.

In this case, arrange a private session with her without hesitation.


8. She Contacts You A Lot

Anyone who’s ever liked somebody knows for a fact that people can never get enough of the person that they’re into. They always have to be updated and connected in one way or another.

These days, women satisfy this need by reaching out on social media or texting. Married women are the same, and one that’s into flirting with you will contact you a lot.

She’ll approach you and send cute or suggestive messages regularly to appeal to you. Once you relax with her, she’ll probably start sending you selfies.


9. She Lets You Know She’s Available To Hang Out

Those who have tied the knot are supposed to be busy with their families. They shouldn’t have a lot of free time on their hands to waste on other folks.

But more importantly, a happy wife shouldn’t want to hang out with a guy alone.

On account of this, it’s a clear sign that a married woman is flirting when she always lets you know that she’s available to hang out with you.

What’s more, if she’s the forward type, she can suggest naughty things to do when you meet up.

And make sure to chose a private place to hook up during the day because at night a married woman won’t hang out.


What To Do When A Married Woman Is Flirting With You?

No matter where you look at it, having an affair is playing with fire. And the wrong move can get you burned in an instant.

Yet despite the trouble it could bring, there’s no harm in simply enjoying a married woman’s flirtations. Though should things go to the next level, you must always be mindful of the possible consequences.

All in all, the wisest choice for you is to ignore or reject her properly and remove yourself from bad scenarios.

You’ve got everything to lose and nothing valuable to gain.




  • Peter Brown

    Dr. Peter Brown is a dating and sex expert that writes for several various publications. Having got his doctorate from Yala Univeristy and operating his own clinic, he has a vast knowledge about casual relationships involving married people. He likes to play golf and spend time with his children during weekends.