How To Join A Sex Party In London
The city of London is witnessing a rise of sex-positive events post Covid. They range from BDSM events to orgies to intimate couple swapping parties.
With so many options to choose from, it can be difficult to know where to start, but it can also be difficult to get an invitation if it’s your first time in London.
First timers usually end up in the wrong venue and have an awful experience simply because they didn’t take the time to connect with like minded people living in the city.
Our first swinging experience in London was dreadful as the sex club we picked let in too many single males. We felt unsafe and left with a bitter memory.
To avoid such situations, we’ll share our experience in this article and help you to find quality sex parties in London with minimal effort.
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How to Get Invited to Sex Parties in London
Aside from the numerous lifestyle clubs in London, plenty of people also host private house sex parties.
The lifestyle clubs are receptive to all races. However, there are certain limitations in terms of age and appearance.
As you can presume, the elite venues won’t accept just about anyone and there’s a strict criteria.
If you don’t want to go through the hassle then you can always use Adult Friend Finder. The site doesn’t put such restrictions and there are plenty of people so you’ll build a network in no time!
But honestly, there are so many options and we’ve listed all of them below.
Best Places To Find London Sex Parties
London is a hub for promiscuity where you can find an endless number of sex parties.
There are plenty of lifestyle clubs and also a heavy online presence of open-minded people down to engage in all sorts of sexual activities.
Aside from that, people also often host private sex parties in their homes. But you’ll have to build a network to join.
If you’re new to the city sex scene, you can start from these places…
1. Lifestyle Clubs
Luckily for you, there are so many amazing lifestyle clubs in the city, so you don’t have to experiment with different approaches if you don’t want to.
Each club has its own rules and different screening criteria. Let’s go through some clubs that London has to offer:
- Le Boudoir Club – Le Boudoir is unarguably one of the best lifestyle clubs in the city. But as Jessica says in the video if you want to join, then, you’ll first have to become a member by registering on their site:
• Abfabs/Kestrels – A great spot near Heathrow airport. They have the biggest dark room in London, hot tubs, a swimming pool, and a gym.
Like most clubs on the list, you’ll need an ID to enter their premises.
• Hellfire Club – If you’re both into fetish and swinging, then this lifestyle club honestly combines the best of both worlds.
During our visit to HellFire club, there was even a 70-year-old couple having a go at it. We hope we’re at least half as fun and energetic at that age!
• Phoenix Club – This is another great club to find adult parties in London. The venue welcomes singles men but you have to bring your own booze.
• OurPlace4Fun – OurPlace4Fun is run by women and has a reputation for being one of the friendliest lifestyle clubs in the city. But beware that there are no full private rooms in the venue, so other people can watch you having sex.
• Vanilla Alternative – This is a private members club, and while it isn’t in London, we just had to add it to the list!
The club is known for its young and attractive crowd but it welcomes people of all ages, making it a pretty fun place.
• Liberty Elite – This is another swinger and fetish club in London. Liberty Elite has been around for over two decades and they only allow private members to the premises.
We know, this was a long list, but there’s still a chance that we might have missed some low-key clubs here. That’s how wild London is.
But if you’re middle-aged (around 35 to 40), you’ll have a great time at most of these clubs, especially Le Boudoir. You’ll find plenty of couples with matching age ranges.
However, if you’re young and new to the lifestyle scene, we’d recommend choosing OurPlace4Fun or Vanilla Alternative.
2. Hookup Sites
We’ve tried plenty of adult sites and apps to connect with people and get an invitation for a local sex party, but none work out so well as Adult Friend Finder.
There are so many singles and couples hot for action, that it has been hard to follow up with their invitations.
Interestingly, the site isn’t just popular among Brits. We got contacted by a sexy Asian couple who was looking for a swinging session during their vacation.
3. Private Parties
There are also plenty of private venues and social platforms that host sex parties in London. We’ll start with one of the most popular, which is Killing Kittens.
It is a social platform focused on female fantasies. Getting in is pretty hard, as you have to go through a tough screening process.
We had the opportunity to join their cabaret party. After watching a show everyone started having sex and there was no shortage of booths to play in.
We loved how respectful and friendly people were, and had the time of our lives.
Then there’s another interesting site that hosts sex parties in London, it goes by the name of Fever Parties.
We haven’t had the chance to visit one of their events, but judging by their site, it looks like they know what they’re doing!
And if you want information about more private events in London then Pleasure Island Parties is also a great place.
They continuously update their calendar with upcoming sex parties hosted in London.
4. Forums
Lifestyle forums are also fantastic places to network with new couples.
Starting with Fab Swingers which is one of the biggest forums in the U.K to find sex parties.
What we love the most about Fab Swingers is that it’s regularly updated.
Of course, you’ll still find some fakers on the site, but it’s easy to avoid them by exchanging pictures and hopping on video calls.
Whether you’re into orgies, gang bangs, or just partner swapping, you’ll find all sorts of people on the forum.
The site also has a chat, where you can exchange messages before taking things outside the platform.
After that, we have the U.K Swingers Subreddit. You’ll find users here making new posts pretty much every day.
Single men might struggle to find any leads, but couples can’t really go wrong with it.
In fact, after Adult Friend Finder, Reddit is our go-to platform to find sex parties and open-minded couples whenever we visit the U.K.
5. Podcasts
If you wish to learn more about the UK lifestyle culture and sex events in London, you should listen to the Bed Hoppers podcast.
The hosts of this show talk about their London group sex experience and often have interesting guests.
Most importantly, just by listening to their pod, you can learn more about the latest events in the city.
They can also give you some valuable insights as to how to be accepted in some of the top lifestyle clubs in the city.
In fact, the Bed Hoppers also organize their own events.
You can get a shoutout during the show, share your Twitter handle on their site, and connect with other couples and singles in London and the UK.
6. Naturist Venues
Things are about to heat up because now we will talk about the naturist clubs in London, and boy, do we have some great options!
The chances are that you already know about one of them – that’s right, we’re talking about Rio’s.
It’s not only a naturist club but a full fledge Spa with great facilities like steam rooms, jacuzzi and so on.
We visited the place but honestly, we were kind of surprised. Despite being a nude spa, most couples were walking in towels.
Later we did some digging and found this Reddit post where another user shared a similar experience.
But he highlighted that the people in the towel were mostly swingers, which made sense! One of them did approach us with the offer (which we accepted in case you’re wondering).
Anyway, this was just one of our experiences with Rio’s, here’s a list of other nudist venues in London you can try as well:
Regardless of the club you choose, just keep in mind that going as a single man isn’t really the best idea.
If you’re just there to chill and embrace your body, then sure, you’ll have a good time.
But if you’re looking for sex, then your chances will increase if a woman accompanies you.
FAQs about Sex Parties in London
Are there lifestyle clubs in London?
There are numerous lifestyle clubs in the UK capital.
They usually have strict rules, so you won’t be able to access their premises before getting approved on their sites.
How to find an orgy in London?
Forums like Fab Swingers are one of the best ways to find an orgy in London.
You can also visit naturist resorts and find couples who might be interested in group sex.
Can single men join sex parties in London?
Yes, single men can join sex parties in London. But they normally have to pay a higher cover fee and go through a stricter screening process.
Being good-looking also really helps in increasing your chances.
