Ankara is the cosmopolitan capital of Turkey, and it’s a bit more progressive than some other places in the country.
Though it’s progressive in the sense that it has a decent selection of nighttime venues including strip clubs that we couldn’t find in Alanya.
The locals are quite religious and hooking up with them still isn’t easy, so we’d mainly recommend hitting on foreigners.
In this guide, we’ll share our recent sexual experience while visiting the city.
We’ll cover its hookup culture, and some of the best venues to get laid along with some tips on how to avoid potential issues with the locals.
So keep reading to learn how you can find sex in Ankara.
The Ankara Sex Guide was last updated on 25 May 2023
- Sex Life And Hookup Culture
- Where to Meet People For Sex in Ankara?
- Best Places For Outdoor Sex
- Adult Hotels and Hostels
- Safe Sex And Clinics
Sex Life And Hookup Culture
In our opinion, getting laid in Ankara is slightly harder than in Istanbul or coastal areas. While Ankara is becoming more liberal with each passing year, you can still feel the religious impact.
Overall Mindset About Casual Sex
Despite being such a large metropolis, most people in Ankara are worried about social perception. Many of them are unwilling to hookup with foreigners fearing stigmatization.
However, that doesn’t mean you won’t get laid here. If you plan to live in Ankara it’s possible to find a fuck buddy, and if you’re just visiting the best way is to hook up is online.
As a guy, your chance of success depends on who you come across. On the other hand, as a girl, it’s much easier to find a partner for a casual romp.
Swinger Activities in Ankara
If you read our Turkish city guides, you should know that swinging is against the law.
You won’t find any lifestyle clubs in Ankara or anyplace else in Turkey. So, if we neglect some wild chance encounters, we suggest contacting Ankara’s members on Adult Friend Finder.
Sometimes they organize sex parties in a private house, and if you get invited don’t forget to bring a box of lokum, baklava, or traditional Turkish sweets
Another potential solution is checking out some of the places in Bentderesi Caddesi. This is Ankara’s red-light district and the ideal place for dirty deeds.
And while we’re not suggesting that you get a hooker, you should definitely visit the surrounding bars for partners. If you’re lucky, you’ll come across open-minded couples.
Is It Easy To Hook Up in Ankara?
Honestly, we have mixed feelings about Ankara. We won’t say that it’s the best place to get laid in Turkey, but it isn’t the worst either.
The problem is that the city doesn’t get as much love from tourists. So on some nights, you might not find any foreigners for sex.
This can sometimes make hooking up in Ankara incredibly difficult. But of course, it depends a lot on your luck as well.
Where to Meet People For Sex in Ankara?
If you dream of bedding a Turkish woman, we suggest that you don’t get your hopes up. It’s common for girls to get shunned by their families if they engage in extramarital affairs.
Usually, a person needs to have a prior relationship with a person to have a chance for a casual hookup.
The best way to get to a liberal crowd is by visiting nightclubs, bars, and hookup sites that we’ll cover next.
1. Sex Dating Sites
Turkey has lots of local apps. Unfortunately, almost all of them focus on relationships, as per religious policies.
Surprisingly, apps like Tinder are also pretty dead in Ankara. Dan swiped endlessly for a hookup and hardly got a match, only to get flaked.
If you want to get down and dirty, your best hope is to hop on Adult Friend Finder. We’re not saying it will create miracles, but it’s a better choice in comparison to other available options.
The platform attracts kinky foreigners and sometimes locals who want to have no string-attached sex discreetly.
2. Night Hookups in Nightclubs and Bars
The only saving grace for Ankara is its nighttime venues. The city is packed with nightclubs and bars where you can mingle with tourists and locals.
But of course, as we said earlier, the number of tourists you find depends a lot on your luck.
Anyway, the following are some of the best nightclubs and bars in Ankara:
• Manhattan Club – Manhattan is a fantastic live rock club. It’s the ideal place to hook up with kinky people.
• Cengel Bar – If you wish to experience Turkish music and hit on Turkish women, you should check out Cengel.
It’s a great singles bar but our main issue was that it’s off the beaten road.
• Nirvana Club – Nirvana should be one of your first choices when visiting the city. It’s in the very center of Ankara, and the venue is massive with plenty of young people eager to hook up..
• Checkpoint Lounge & Terrace – Checkpoint is the best lounge in the city. People going there are more liberal, which makes it easier to socialize and hook up.
• 21 Pub – If you’re looking for a more conversational atmosphere, you should go to 21 Pub. It’s the perfect starting point for your night as it’s located in the city center.
When starting your night, I suggest you always start with Kavaklidere. This is the trendiest part of the city, brimming with restaurants, nightclubs, and strip clubs.
Kizilay is the second-best neighborhood for partying. It’s a modern area with lots of restaurants, nightclubs, and other venues.
You also can find some cool places in Tunali Hilmi Avenue and Gaziosmanpaşa.
3. Sex Clubs: Swinging And Sex Parties
Like most Turkish cities, Ankara doesn’t have a swinging scene either.
Hosting private parties can also get you into some serious trouble with the authorities if you aren’t careful. Fortunately, we still managed to find a couple on a popular swinger site.
But it took us a lot of time and we honestly think we got lucky because they were also foreigners that were just about to leave.
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4. BDSM Venues
Similar to swinging, BDSM is frowned upon in Turkey. But I think you’re more likely to find a domme than you are to find a swapping couple.
Use Alt.com to set up a meeting with locals and tourists.
5. Transsexual And Transgender Places
Surprisingly, finding trans women in Ankara is much easier than you might think. The city has a few gay and trans venues, and locals are somewhat open to same-sex parties.
Although Dan and I haven’t tried this, you might find some singles and couples for threesomes and foursomes in these clubs.
One of the clubs you can visit is Sixties Club. They host incredible trans-friendly parties so you might get lucky.
If that doesn’t work, then you can also try signing up on popular Adult trans dating site.
There are so many places in Ankara where you can get a lap dance. Keep in mind that the performances in Turkey aren’t always as raunchy as in the West.
But anyway, if you’re looking for some adult entertainment, then try out the following strip clubs in Ankara:
• Corte Club – Located in Kavaklidere, Corte Club has plenty of beautiful women. It’s only expensive if you invite a dancer to your table.
• Havana Club – This is more of a nightclub but it has a decent selection of girls to put on a show.
• Sehrazat – Aside from strippers, the club features various exotic and folk dances and musicians. We suggest you check the program before visiting.
Some of these clubs even have live music and organize other events. In fact, a lot of these places are more similar to cabarets than regular strip clubs.
Best Places For Outdoor Sex
Given the strict Turkish lewdness policies, we’d suggest you avoid central parks. The last thing you need is to get caught by a cop while banging in a bush.
Dan and I fucked our brains out while at Lake Eymir, which is part of a larger Ahlatlibel Ataturk Parki.
Basically, this is an enormous green area on Ankara’s outskirts, with lots of cool spots.
To the east, you have Mavi Gol Mesire Yeri. Although it’s a bit further away from the city center, it’s a perfect place for sunset groping.
Adult Hotels and Hostels
As you’d presume from such a large urban area, Ankara has lots of adult-only hotels and hostels:
• Deeps Hostel – Close to Kizilay metro station, the hostel is in the very heart of the city. Ideal place for making acquaintances with tourists and fucking in dormitories.
• Anatolia Luxury Hotel – As the name suggests, Anatolia is one of the fancier hotels, and it’s conveniently located in the city center, so you don’t have to worry about catching a ride late at night.
• Inn 14 Hostel – If you want to save some money, you should book Inn 14 Hostel. A bit further from the city center, but it’s cheap, making it a great spot for bringing one-night stands.
Safe Sex And Clinics
The good thing about Ankara and Turkey is that the locals have a low 0.2% HIV prevalence. So, the odds of catching a bug are much lower than in Western countries.
This is especially important if you’re prone to taking dumb risks. Still, Dan and I always suggest caution when visiting foreign countries.
If you think you have caught something, you should go to Medicana Ankara Hospital. This is a multidisciplinary clinic where you can perform various checkups on top of STD tests.
Cankaya Public Health Center is another fantastic option, where you can perform checkups for free and without giving personal information.