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How To Flirt Sexually: 9 Tips

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Flirting is needed when you want to convey your sexual interest. As such, there are things that you should and shouldn’t do to get your message across effectively.

The reason is whether you’re aiming for casual sex, or something long-term, acting without thought won’t give you the result you want.

Just one reckless slip-up, and your intentions could easily be misread.

Can you imagine just how much it would suck if the person you’re flirting with gets turned off?

Lessen the odds of rejection, and raise your chances of scoring with our tips below.

 

1. Don’t Attack Them Right At The Start

The person in front of you may be the person of your dreams. So obviously, you’re full of excitement and want to flirt as soon as possible to make your sexual interest known.

But you better hold yourself back if you want to make a good impression. Even those with amazing looks lose their charm if they come on too strongly. No one likes desperation.

Try to set up a friendly vibe first before you make a move. The ideal time to flirt is when the person you’re chasing has at least become comfortable being around you.

 

2. Test The Waters

Once the girl or guy you’re interested in has relaxed, you can start to subtly flirt. Test the waters to see how well they’ll respond to your sexual advances.

Their reactions will be able to verify if you’ve got a shot or not with them.

In this video, they suggest at the end of the night to ask her to come over to your place…

But for us, it’s too risky to wait until the end to ask someone to hook up.

It wouldn’t do you good to waste time on a person who’s not attracted to you, right?

So you must check if they’re only being nice or are truly drawn to you. Only when you confirm that the feeling between the two of you is mutual can you turn the heat up and be forward.

 

3. Watch What You Say

We already know that the best way to hook up is to flirt directly. Therefore you need to speak out when you like someone.

For this reason, what you say matters a lot when flirting sexually. In fact, the person you’re into might leave should you say something wrong.

You’ve got to watch what you say to get what you want. Moreover, you’ll need to find out what kind of talk will work as every person is different.

Some prefer aggressive lines and dirty talk. While others are better with playful innuendos instead.

 

4. Express Your Interest With Body Language

It’s common for people to have images that aren’t in line with what they want to show. This is usually due to their poor body language.

In this case, you could have a naughty and fun personality. Yet those around you won’t be able to tell if you act distant or sit far away from them.

In light of this, you must clearly express your interest with your body to ensure they’ll understand you.

For example, do things that can only mean you’re interested. For instance, putting your hand on their inner thighs or rubbing your boobs against their arm.

 

5. Develop Sexual Tension

A big key to being great at flirting is developing the sexual tension between you two.

It’s one of the tricks that’ll make the person you’re after want to spend time with you. Be it for a night or on a date.

When you’re confident in yourself, you should do it in person. You’ll have no problem sweeping them off their feet with sexy jokes and lusty glances.

If you don’t have the courage in person, though, you can simply choose to build up sexual tension over text.

What’s vital is that they feel a sexual connection to you.

 

6. Be Lighthearted and Easy To Be With

Do you know what the fastest way to ruin the mood is? It’s having a “heavy” personality.

No one wants to be around someone depressing and gloomy.

So before flirting sexually, make sure to be lighthearted and easy to be with. There’s no way being a downer will win you any numbers or hookups.

On a similar note, you should avoid being too serious as well. This will also scare off potential sex partners.

 

7. Be Sexy In Your Own Way

When people hear the word sexy, they usually think that girls have to show skin. And that guys have to be huge and buff.

However, not everyone is born with a perfect body.

You have to work with what you have to make an impact when you flirt sexually. Meaning you need to be sexy in your own way.

For guys, you can increase your appeal when you flirt by enhancing your manliness. Take charge of the situation and actively pursue them.

As for the girls, you should wear flattering outfits that emphasize your assets, like your breasts and legs.

 

8. Don’t Be Creepy

A desirable face and body will no doubt get you the attention you seek. Yet you won’t have any success at flirting sexually if you creep out the people you’re interested in.

Given this point, it would be wise to avoid talking about creepy or disturbing things. Discussions about death, UFOs, and the like are a complete no-no.

Don’t even try to bring up your hobbies if they’re weird or aren’t acceptable by the public. Weirdos are never popular and have no luck at getting laid at all.

Go with pleasant and amusing topics, and you’ll be sure to score.

 

9. Touch Them Erotically

If you want to flirt with a person and turn them on, the most efficient way to do it is to touch them erotically.

It’s not only direct but also assures that the one you’re touching understands your interest.

Because there’s nobody who wouldn’t realize what you want from them. Especially if you go with such a seductive and straightforward approach.

I mean, for what reason would you stroke a woman’s inner arm if you didn’t want to sleep with her? Or why else would you grab a man’s chest if you weren’t into him?

An uninterested person wouldn’t do any of those things.

 

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