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Mexico City Hook Up Guide For Singles And Couples

If you’re looking to get laid in Mexico City and want to enjoy great sex experiences, this guide offers updated information, tips and guidance.

We’ll show you how to hook up with singles and couples no matter your age, sexual interests, or type of relationship you’re after.

From one night stand to find a regular fuck buddy, there are several opportunities to have sex in Mexico City.

The Mexico City Guide was last updated on 10 April 2021

Mexico City hook up guide

Mexico City has almost 9 million inhabitants making it easy to hook up.

It doesn’t matter if you’re single or a couple, there are all the sort of opportunities to get laid in Mexico City.

But still, you need to know the best places and ways to hook up here if you’re new.

Keep reading to learn how to get laid in New Mexico without wasting time and money.

And if you have any questions or experience that you want to share, use the comment form at the end of this guide.


Number of Sex Clubs – 6 swinger clubs and 34 strip clubs.




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Girls in Mexico City
Look, values and sexuality

Men in Mexico City
Look, values and sexuality

Sex Life & Hook Up Culture
Casual sex, swinging activities and hooking up in Mexico City

Where to Meet People For Casual Sex in Mexico City
Hookups, sex dating, swinging, orgies, strip clubs, transgender and BDSM

Best Places For Outdoor Sex
Do you have a fetish for dogging, public sex or voyeurism?

Adult Hotels And Hostels
Best hostels for hookups and erotic hotels in Mexico City

Safe Sex And Clinics
Play but stay safe


Girls in Mexico City

With their beautiful looks and hot figures, you’ll surely feel at ease with the open-minded Mexico City girls.

Look And Physical Appearance

Most girls in Mexico City have black or brown hair with dark eyes.

For the most part, they have slim bodies that are sexy with big chests and curvy hips. Although they’re short on average at 5’1-5’2 tall.

They’re chic and well-dressed too. In effect, they use makeup and wear bright clothes, like maxi dresses or dressy tops with pants.

Attitude And Values

Mexico City women are more educated than those from other Mexican cities. As a result, they’re confident with what they do and work hard.

Not to mention, they’re open-minded due to their modern views. As such, they’re likable and easy to approach, be it by a local or tourist.

And while they’re open to casual sex and hookups, most of them want to settle down. In fact, they tie the knot early, around their mid to late 20s.


Most young girls in Mexico City have sex already in college as this study on Risk Behaviors shows that only one-quarter of them never had sex.

On top of that, this study on condom use shows that the majority of girls have unsafe sex.

In short, many Mexico City women are down for casual sex and they like it unprotected.

Summary of Mexico City Girls

  • 3 traits: Girls in Mexico City are confident, easy to approach, and work hard.
  • 2 tips: To get close to Mexico City girls, be direct and take the lead as shy guys turn them off.
  • 1 fact: Women in Mexico City like to show and receive public displays of affections.


Men in Mexico City

Whether you want an attractive fuck buddy or a fun-loving friend, the men in Mexico City will not let you down.

Look and Physical Appearance

As they are Hispanic, Mexico City men have light to dark brown eyes, while light colors are uncommon. Besides that, they’re natural brunettes.

They’re also small as their basic height is 5’8 or below. And they have lean to meaty bodies in their teens to 20s. But get a bit chunky as they mature.

Apart from that, they’re fashionable and like to dress up. Their style is dressy in fit jeans, button-down shirts, and leather shoes.

Attitude and Values

To put it simply, Mexico City men are lively and warm. For this reason, they have a joyful nature and look at things in a good light.

And though they like to enjoy life with parties and the like, they’re also kind and welcoming. They’re the type to go out of their way just to help others.

Aside from that, they’re a little traditional and have serious girlfriends most of the time. But they still like to date around whether they’re single or not.


As said in this study on Risky Behaviors, many men in Mexico City get laid in college.

Not only that, in this article by Cision, they’re listed as the 3rd most promiscuous guys in Mexico. In fact,  70% of them sleep with 7 or more girls in a year.

In simple words, Mexico City guys love to fuck a lot. They start to have sex around 16 and enjoy sex with several partners.

Summary of Mexico City Men

  • 3 traits: Mexico City guys are warm, kind, and joyful.
  • 2 tips: To appeal to the men in Mexico City, doll yourself up with makeup and be flirty. But don’t be too easy to get.
  • 1 fact: Mexico City men will do all that they can to help someone in need.


Sex Life And Hookup Culture

hooking up Mexico City couple

This article states that Mexico City is on Tinder’s list of Thirstiest Cities in the World.

This goes to show that people here are into hooking up.

Overall Mindset About Casual Sex

The city is one of the most sexually open cities in Mexico. This is why more locals, especially the younger ones, are accepting of casual sex.

But since they’re Catholics, they have to at least look like prudes in public to save face.

Swinger Activities in Mexico City

If swinging is what you like, then there are 6 swingers clubs in Mexico City. You’ll have to pay for membership for a few of the clubs.

They all have different vibes, from a nightclub feel to an upscale mansion. There is also a bed and breakfast swingers club if you want to play all night.

A couple of their services are large halls, playrooms, pools, and hot tubs. Some of them have programs with games, live sex shows, and stripper shows.

The entry fee is up to 1,300 MXN or more per person.

Is It Easy To Hook Up in Mexico City?

It’s definitely easier to hook up here than in other areas in the country cause everyone is more open-minded about sex.

You should try to learn some Spanish since many don’t speak English at all. Plus it’ll make you more attractive to them.


Where to Meet People For Sex in Mexico City

Famous for being the capital of Mexico and also for being North America’s most populous city – let’s see where you can get laid in Mexico City…

1. Sex Dating Online

If you’re planning a trip to Mexico City and want sex on your first night then Adult Friend Finder is all you need.

It can easily meet and fuck singles and couples.

2. Night Hookups in Nightclubs and Bars

Mexicans love to party, and visiting the capital is a great way for you to verify that statement.

You’ll fully get immersed in the countless entertainment options this city has to offer.

But stay close to the nightlife areas because the traffic is bad.

So here are some of the best pickup bars and nightclubs in Mexico City:

• Patrick Miller – Located at Merida 17, this place is full of people who’re energetic both on the dancefloor as well as in the bed.

• Hyde Club – Located at Paseo de Los Tamarindos 90, this club knows how to throw a party. Simply the best place to find nightstands in Mexico City.

• Felina Bar – Located at Calle Ometusco 87, due to the social atmosphere, singles can come here alone without feeling awkward.

• Baltra Bar – Located at Iztaccihuatl 36D, if you want to hook up with tourists, then this is the place.

• Hanky Panky Bar – Located at Versalles 96 Colonia, listed as the 98th best bar in the world, this place is also a hotspot to meet cougars in Mexico City.

Mexico City as a whole is heaven for party-goers and singles. However, the atmosphere you’d find depends on the neighborhood.

With that said, the following three neighborhoods offer the best chances to find sexual encounters:

  • La Roma – One of the best areas to bar crawl in Mexico City, and also, popular among tourists.
  • Polanco – Popular for its posh and fancy places, you’ll find hot people but prepare to spend some serious amount of money.
  • Condesa – Hipster neighborhood with full-blown EDM party atmosphere.


3. Everyday Life Situations

If you’re looking for daytime hookups, then a tip for men is that the women in Mexico City are quite receptive to flirting, so take the initiative.

As for women, well, you’re in charge. You’ll have guys lined up in no time.

With that said, one of the best places to meet singles in Mexico City is Santa Fe. During the day time, the district bustling with life and energy.

day time hookups Santa Fe

Santa Fe

The restaurants, coffee shops and cafes like Flora Café and Los Canarios are packed with an approachable crowd.

Alternatively, the three night-time districts, i.e. La Roma, Polanco and Condesa can do wonders during the day as well.

The people in these neighborhoods usually have their guards down and it’s easy to flirt with them.

Lastly, due to the friendly nature of the people here, you’ll get an amazing response in malls like Centro, Reforma 222 and Antara Fashion Hall as well.

4. Sex Clubs: Swinging And Sex Parties in Mexico City

Swinging isn’t uncommon in Mexico City, especially because it is a hotspot for sex tourism.

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SQ Swinger Club

Following are some swinger clubs in Mexico City where you can find sex parties and more:

• SQ Swinger Club – A high-standard swinger club that requires a reservation to enter. It is located inside a luxury hotel in Santa Fe.

Casa Swinger – the light and overall atmosphere of this club are perfect to help you get a true taste of eroticism with other couples.

Diamond Swinger Club CDMX – The best place to enjoy a discreet atmosphere for couples swapping.

5. Transsexual And Transgenders

Hooking up with trans in Mexico City isn’t in any way nerve-wracking.

However, the trans prostitution scene here is quite common so be on your guard. Especially, avoid Zona Rosa as it’s a red light district area.

Instead, visit LGBT friendly venues like Boy Bar and Papi Fun Bar. Although there’s no guarantee of meeting trans there, it’s worth a try.

If you want guarantees, then transsexual sites are a better alternative and will surely help you find hot T’s to fuck.

6. Strip Clubs

stripper New Mexico nightlife hookups

Strip joints in Mexico City are already quite expensive, and on top of that scams are also common.

Always pre-pay for a lap dance and other services otherwise, be prepared to get charged threefold more.

Following are some of the best strip clubs in Mexico City:

• Woman’s Club Vip – Located at Av. de los Insurgentes Sur 569, this strip joint is a treat for women as you’ll find hunks with the most chiseled bodies in town.

• El Closet – Located at Saltillo 60, cozy atmosphere and beautiful dancers, but you’ll spend a ton of money.

• Queen’s Mexico – Located at Av. Insurgentes Sur 210, the girls here are drop-dead gorgeous.


Best Places for Outdoor Sex

Following are the best places for outdoor sex in Mexico City:

• Chapultepec Park – The largest park in Latin America, what better place would there be to find a secluded corner?

• Parque Lincoln – This park is full of trees and bushes, at night, there aren’t many people around either.

• Cerro de las Cruces – Excellent trail for running…as well as fucking.

• Tlalpan National Park – Quiet place not only at night but also during the day. But before you start, check your surroundings.

New Mexico casual sex outdoor park

Tlalpan National Park

Take with you a blanket to put on the ground and one to cover up in case someone passes by.


Adult Hotels And Hostels

If you are searching for hook-ups in Mexico City, then stay anywhere near Polanco, Condesa or La Roma. They’re the wildest areas in town.

Following are recommendations for the adult hotels in Mexico City near those areas:

Alternatively, hostels are cheaper, lighter on the pocket and have a social atmosphere to find hook-ups.

Following are the best hostels in Mexico City:

Looking for naturist resorts instead? Check out our Cancun hook up guide instead.   


Safe Sex And Clinics

Sexual health problems can be a pain to deal with, this is why always use condoms to avoid regret.

And if you want to get check-ups, then go to Clínica Especializada Condesa or AHF Mexico.

This ends the Mexico City sex guide. Have fun hooking up here.


  • Louise And Dan

    We are born and bred Californians who love socializing, adventures, and sex. Being active in the ethical non-monogamy communities here locally and online, it's only natural for us to start this site to provide a 100% honest source of information about the sexual lifestyle in some of the world’s liberated adult destinations. We spend most of our free time traveling to hook up with singles, couples, and people of all genders around the world.