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Does She Want Sex? 10 Signs Of Female Arousal

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Men often miss the opportunity to get laid because they cannot read when a woman is sexually turned on.

They keep wondering “does she want sex” while in reality, she’s hardly controlling her lust.

The key point to keep in mind is that every woman reacts differently to sexual excitement.

Some make it clear through their words and body language, while for others, it involves many physiological reactions.

So at times, it might not even be easy to tell that she’s feeling horny.

However, there are still some obvious signs of female arousal that we’ll discuss in detail below.


1. She Starts Breathing Heavy

You might be thinking: “how is breathing even associated with sexual excitement?”

Well, when a person is aroused, their heart rate also increases, which in turn, causes them to breathe faster.

So if a girl you’re flirting with starts breathing heavily then she might be feeling aroused.

However, don’t jump to a conclusion too early and make sure that her heavy breathing isn’t due to excitement.


2. She’s Wet Down There

The most obvious physical sign of female arousal is when she starts producing vaginal fluid. In other words, she starts getting wet.

Vaginal fluid is produced due to a sex hormone called estrogen. The higher the estrogen levels in a woman’s body, the more fluid she will discharge.

With that said, if you’re touching her panties and feel they’re soaking wet, that means she is ready to have sex.


3. Her Nipples Are Erect

Similar to a penis, the nipples also have an erectile tissue that receives a lot of blood flow.

This causes the tissue to become harder and stiffer which is the reason a woman’s nipples get erect when she’s feeling aroused.

Erect nipples can sometimes also be noticeable if she’s wearing a tight shirt.

But of course, you gotta be careful because you don’t want to creep her out by staring at her breasts.


4. She Has a Sex Flush

The skin of most women turns red or pinkish when they’re having sex or feeling aroused.

This is commonly referred to as a sex glow or a sex flush which is caused due to a higher body temperature.

Sex flush is usually more prominent on lighter skin, and it goes away soon after a woman orgasms.

So if her skin becomes delightfully pink or red then it might not be due to blushing, but because she’s horny.


5. She’s Using Sexual Innuendos

A woman using sexual innuendos usually means that she’s trying to flirt with you.

This is the best-case scenario, and the chances are that she’s already sexually aroused.

And even if she isn’t, she’s clearly showing interest in you so you can use that opportunity to turn her on.


6. She’s Touchy

A friendly jab on the shoulder or even a hug is nothing out of the ordinary.

However, if her hugs are lasting longer than usual and she’s finding excuses to touch you then that could mean something more.

If she starts rubbing your thigh then that’s obviously a clear sign that she wants to initiate intimacy. So be more observant about where and how frequently she touches you.


7. Her Pupils are Dilated

The pupils of a person can dilate when they’re romantically or sexually attracted to someone.

It happens due to the love hormones called oxytocin and dopamine which are present in our bodies.

This >study also shows how pupil dilation is a visual cue for sexual interest.

However, keep in mind that the change is often so small that it’s barely noticeable.

So if her pupils seem bigger than normal while she’s looking towards you then you now know what could be the reason.


8. She’s Biting Her Lips

This is another body language sign and a classic technique that women often use to flirt with men.

If she’s biting her lips while staring at you, then there’s a high possibility that she’s lusting over you.

However, women also sometimes bite their lips out of nervousness.

So you might also have to judge her based on the other body language signs that dating expert Dan Bacon discusses in the video below:

9. She’s Suddenly Feeling Hot

Sexual arousal causes the heart to pump faster, which in turn, can make a person feel hot.

There’s a chance that this sudden change in body temperature might even make her sweat.

And even if she’s not sweating, she might take her jacket off, lower the temperature of the air conditioner or drop other hints.


10. Her Vagina Expands

The vaginal muscles expand when a woman is turned on, making it stretch 4 to 8 inches in size.

This makes it easier for the vagina to accommodate a bigger penis.

But obviously, you can’t really verify this unless you’re already penetrating her.


How to Sexually Arouse a Woman

The fastest way to turn a woman on is by touching her neck, inner thigh, breasts, waist, and other erogenous zones.

But don’t forget to turn her on mentally before going for the physical. For women is important to feel comfortable around them before getting intimate physically.

You can also turn a woman by learning how to dirty talk. But that might be a bit challenging if you lack flirting skills.




  • Tom Phillips

    Tom Phillips is a Dating Coach for World Hookup Guides who has been helping men to succeed with women for almost 7 years. His coaching career began with one-on-one coaching and has gradually evolved into seminars. He has dated successfully dated several women over the years and now shares strategies and techniques on several national publications in addition to World Hookup Guides.