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9 Tips To Hook Up With Married Women

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We know that for many men can be a challenge to hook up with married women. Especially for those young men who are used to bed only young girls.

That can be frustrating and cause stress.

If you’re like most men in the same situation, you might be craving to have the opportunity to sleep with a married woman.

Let me say that’s ok if you’re having trouble figuring out how to have an affair with a married woman. We all had the same problem at first.

The good thing is you’re already taking action by reading this article. And you’ll find out a number of things you can do about it.

We’ll be going over the 9 best things you can start doing to hook up with married women.


1. Hang Out At Places Where Married Women Usually Go

We have already covered in detail the best places where to meet married women, so we won’t ponder too much on this.

But in short, by using affair sites and by visiting the local cougar bar in your city, you’re pretty much set to meet horny married women.

Similarly, sports bars that host board games like bingo are also hotspots to mingle with married women.

Just be sure to plan your visit around 7-9 pm. Because after that, married women usually return home to attend to their children.


2. Act Like a Mature Person

Married women usually have kids at home and they definitely don’t want to deal with one outside as well.

So if you want to have any chance with her, then avoid showing any signs of immaturity.

This means there’s absolutely no room for drama or any kind of passive-aggressive behavior.

Try not to get offended over small things. If she declines your offer to have lunch together, then be more understanding and ask her again after a few days.

Basically, be the man who she can resort to when she’s mentally exhausted.

We know, this sounds like a lot of work, but if you want to hook up with a married woman, then you have to show her your maturity by being understanding.


3. Don’t Forget to Dress to Impress

Dressing well and keeping yourself groomed is one of the best ways to make a married woman melt.

Even if your sense of fashion isn’t too great, there’s nothing to worry about. Simply, learn to dress according to the occasion.

While meeting a married woman at a cougar bar, wear something more casual like jeans and a polo.

And if she’s your colleague, then go for classier and more sophisticated clothes. Either way, just never forget to wear perfume.

After all, a good fragrance is the easiest way to make women feel weak on their knees.


4. Learn About Her Married Life

We know, this sounds pretty boring. However, if you want to convince a married woman to sleep with you, then you first need to know more about her married life.

The goal here is to basically learn the dynamics she has with her husband. Because if she rants about her husband, it’s a big sign she is into you as explained by Fredo Hill in this video…

Sure, she wouldn’t bitch about her husband to you the first time, but she’d open up after she feels more comfortable around you.

And once she starts talking more about the conflicts in her relationship, that’s when you can strike.

Just avoid badmouthing her husband. Instead, even if she’s wrong, make her feel validated and tell her she deserves better.


5. Go to The Point Fast – But Not Too Fast

Always keep in mind that a married woman would never take the initiative. If you want to hook up with her, then you have to make the first move.

But that’s where the problem starts. If you express your intentions too early, then she’d cut you off.

And if you wait too long, then the spark would die out. That’s why start subtly flirting once you’ve formed a bond with her.

Don’t be too direct at the beginning, but hit on her just enough to stay in her mind.


6. Be Generous with Compliments

Married or not, women love receiving compliments. But of course, you can’t be too explicit with your words.

Try making your compliments sound more sophisticated. Rather than calling her sexy, tell her that she looks stunning in that dress.

Plus, married women love it when men notice the small details. So if she has gotten a new haircut then let her know that it really suits her.

Your words would hit like a magic spell to her, especially, if her husband doesn’t compliment her.

At the very least, you would stay on her mind for at least the remainder of the day.


7. Build a Sexual Connection

Hooking up with a married woman is all about planting that forbidden seed in her mind.

Whether it’s through your words, gestures or personality, your ultimate goal is to make her think sexually about you.

With that said, intense eye contact is one of the best ways to build a sexual connection.

And if she’s comfortable enough around you, then you can even make some dirty jokes – but do that at your own risk.


8. Never Touch a Married Woman in Public

Touching a married woman in public is a sin that you must avoid at all costs.

It’s just too dangerous for her because someone she or her husband knows might see her.

That’s why only make a move behind closed doors like inside a car or a secluded place.


9. Show Her That You Can Keep Secrets

Even if a married woman is interested in you, she wouldn’t hook up unless she’s certain that you can be trusted.

And her hesitation is completely justified because she doesn’t want to give you the power to destroy her life.

So you need to prove to her that you aren’t a douche who’d start blackmailing her the moment you get in her pants.

The easiest way to make yourself look trustworthy is to act like a gentleman and avoid bragging.

Don’t reveal the details of any person you’ve been physically intimate with in front of her, even if she asks.

This alone would be enough to show her that you can stay discrete about such matters.




  • Peter Brown

    Dr. Peter Brown is a dating and sex expert that writes for several various publications. Having got his doctorate from Yala Univeristy and operating his own clinic, he has a vast knowledge about casual relationships involving married people. He likes to play golf and spend time with his children during weekends.