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How To Hook Up With A Trans Woman: Best Places And Tips

Do you fantasize about meeting up with trans women? If so, then you’re probably wondering how to hook up with one.

Well, it isn’t as hard as you think. Meeting transgender women is actually quite similar to how you do it with cis women.

Yet, if you don’t know where to start, we’ll show you in this article the best places to hook up with trans women.

We’ll also offer valuable tips to hook up with transgender women because you want to avoid misunderstanding and misrepresenting them.

But first…


What Type Of Trans Woman Are You Looking For?

Before you worry about looking, you need to figure out what you’re exactly looking for.

There are trans women who are soft and feminine, looking like CIS women. You won’t notice the difference until you get in her panties.

Yet, most transgender women have a broader frame that is more masculine. The reason is they don’t take a cure for estrogen and don’t go for plastic surgery.

So ask yourself what exactly you want: a masculine trans woman or a feminine one?

type of transgender women to meet

They are every bit as diverse and individual in their personalities, preferences, and body types.

So know that you have an idea about what you’re looking for, let’s check out the places to meet trans women


Where to Meet Transgender Women

Now the question that you’ve been waiting for – how to meet trans women?

Well, there are a couple of places you could try your luck at, and here are to name a few:


1. Trans Hook Up Sites

Some countries still don’t openly accept transsexuals. As a result, trans women often feel uncomfortable coming out to the general public.

This is why if you want to hook up with trans women, then the internet is your best friend. There are several trans hook up sites and apps that we’ve talked about in detail.

But in a nutshell, nowadays a site like TSDates is best for hookups while My Transgender Date is hot among folks who want to date.

Similarly, people also say that Grindr is rising in popularity among trans women, but there’s a catch to it. More often than not, if you hook up with trans on that site, then you’d also have to compensate them for their time.


2. LGBT Events and Pride Parades

Over the years there has been an increasing number of LGBT events and pride parades.

And it shouldn’t come as a surprise that these events and parades have trans women in large numbers.

Most progressive countries like the U.S, U.K, and Canada also have pride months. Take note of the Pride March in New York which is the biggest LTGB meet up in the world…

So mark your calendars because that’s the perfect time to meet trans women.


3. LGBT Student Clubs and Organizations

This is often overlooked by people, but nowadays big universities also have LGBT students clubs and organizations.

Those are also hot spots to mingle with transsexuals. And if you are also a student, then that would make things even easier for you.


4. LGBT Areas

Some countries have areas that are especially dedicated to the LGBT community.

Although a hit or miss, strolling them may also help you potentially connect with trans women.

And if you’re unsure about the LGBT areas in your city then we’ve covered that in our City Hook Up Guides in the “Transsexual and Transgender” section.

With that said, keep in mind that gay bars aren’t the best places to meet trans women. Most LGBT areas are swarming with them, so don’t waste your time there.


5. Any Place Popular Among CIS Women

Lastly, you can meet transgender women anywhere you can meet cis women.

So whether you’re going to a regular bar, a club, or a restaurant, you never know when you may get lucky.

Of course, the probability of that happening isn’t as high as the options we discussed above, but it’s still a possibility.


How to Hookup With A Transgender Woman

Once you meet trans women, how to take things in the direction of a hook up?

Here are a couple of tips to keep in mind:


1. Talk to Them Just Like You Do With Any Other Women

There’s no better way to say it – talk to trans women just like you would talk to any other woman.

Because let’s not forget, a trans woman is well…a woman.

She has undergone a gender transformation so she can finally get accepted for the way she feels.

So think of things from their perspective. Instead of making her feel odd, treat her like other women.


2. Don’t Pass Derogatory Remarks or Ask Humiliating Questions

Transgender women go through their fair share of struggles. They often have to shrug off derogatory remarks and answer humiliating questions.

So the last thing they would want is for someone who’s trying to hit on them to do the same.

That is why questions such as “how big is your penis?” are out of the equation.


3. Don’t Look at or Talk to Them Like Aliens

How would you feel if someone looks at talks to you like you’ve come from outer space?

Awkward, right? Well, trans women feel the same. Don’t look or talk to trans women like aliens.

Act natural as you do around other people. Especially when a trans woman is undressing in front of you.

Make her feel uncomfortable and you can kiss goodbye to your chances of a hookup.


4. Make Them Feel Like Women

This is as obvious as gets but for the sake of spelling it out, trans women want to feel like, well, a woman.

That’s essentially the reason they’ve undergone so many medical procedures, and still continue to do so.

So make them feel like a woman and there’s a great chance that they’d go head over heels for you.


5. Be Friendly, Respectful, Understanding and Open-Minded

People often see trans women as sex objects, and this perception needs to change.

There’s a huge difference between paying someone for sex and hooking up with them.

And to begin with, not all trans women are prostitutes.

So if you want to leave yourself with any chances of a hook up then be friendly, respectful, and open-minded towards trans ladies.

Don’t try to be invasive about their personal lives by prying into matters. Instead, listen to their opinions, and let them open up on their own.


How to Ask a Trans Woman Out?

Asking a trans woman out isn’t any different than asking a cis woman. You don’t have to talk to her or approach her differently, they’re just like every other girl.

And when you think about it, a trans woman is like any other woman, so why should she be treated otherwise?

So if you’re pondering on how to break the ice with a trans woman, then just keep things natural.

Approach her the same way you would approach a cis girl. We’ve already written in detail how to ask a girl to hook up, so follow the tips and you’re good to go.




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