9 Signs He Has Strong Feelings For You
Although hookups are casual, it isn’t unusual for them to become serious relationships. It’s possible you’re having a good time with a guy and suddenly one day he confesses loving you.
How come you didn’t read his signs of strong feelings for you?
Many women don’t notice simply because men are sometimes are to read. But if you pay close attention, you’ll notice when a guy is developing feelings for you.
Perhaps he might text more regularly than usual or show in subtitle ways he cares about you.
So let’s have a look at the most common signs a guy caught feelings for you…
Contents
- 1. He’s Concerned About You
- 2. He Doesn’t Hide The Connection Between The Two Of You
- 3. He Wants To Be In Constant Contact
- 4. He Comes To Your Rescue
- 5. You Become His Priority
- 6. He Starts To Share His Past With You
- 7. He Stops Seeing Other Girls
- 8. He Spends Time With You, Even Without The Sex
- 9. He Initiates Cuddles, Hugs, And Similar Sweet Gestures
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1. He’s Concerned About You
Hookups are easy and convenient since you don’t have to be chummy with your partner to get it on. Being polite and respectful to one another is good enough.
Besides that, whatever you do outside of the bedroom, isn’t anyone else’s business but yours.
Considering this aspect, it’s likely that a guy has caught feelings when he starts being concerned about you.
Like, is he asking how you’ve been at work? Or does he want to hear how you’ve been doing in detail?
If you’ve been getting these types of questions from him, there’s no doubt he likes you.
2. He Doesn’t Hide The Connection Between The Two Of You
Even if hookups are pretty ordinary, people tend to keep their casual partners hidden.
As explained already in the rules of friend with benefits guide, there is no point in introducing someone temporarily to your friends and family.
Thus you won’t be meeting anyone important in a man’s life when sex is all he wants from you. It’ll be just you and him from beginning to end.
In light of this, it should be obvious that he’s developing strong feelings when he doesn’t hide the connection between the two of you.
Furthermore, you can be certain that he’s falling for you when he lets you meet his inner circle.
3. He Wants To Be In Constant Contact
One of the perks of casual sex is that you don’t have to pretend you care about a person more than you have to.
Once you’re done hooking up, you can go about your life without minding your partner. Basically, you mostly talk or get together for sex.
But when he contacts you regularly, there is more than just sex.
Only a guy who’s into you would want to know what you’re up to every day. Especially if you’re in a long distance relationship.
4. He Comes To Your Rescue
Men, in general, hate drama and prefer to stay away from troublesome situations. As such, a guy whose sole interest is to hook up won’t stick his nose into any of your issues.
However, should you be more than a fuck buddy to him, he won’t be able to bear it when you’re having a hard time.
He’ll come to your rescue and do anything he can to take you out of a tight spot.
Better Help’s article proves this since it explains that when a man is in love, he’ll do what he can to make his loved one happy.
5. You Become His Priority
In casual arrangements, both parties know where they stand in each other’s lives. And neither side expects to receive special treatment.
That is to say, the man you’re hooking up with will only get in touch when it’s convenient. He fits you into his schedule, not the other way around.
But when you notice that he’s prioritizing you over others, odds are he has real feelings for you. The moment he puts you first in everything he does, that means he has strong feelings for you already.
I mean, there’s no sense in adjusting his life for you when you guys are already having sex.
As a result of how they were raised, guys typically project a tough image. They want people to think that they’re great and have no weaknesses.
Therefore a man wouldn’t open up to a girl when he feels nothing for her. He’ll stick to plain old small talk and generic compliments.
Meanwhile, when a guy’s in love, he’ll willingly show his vulnerable side and share his past. This is due to his desire to form a genuine connection by revealing his true self.
In short, it’s a sign that he’s got feelings for you when he brings up his personal experiences.
7. He Stops Seeing Other Girls
Many men aren’t into commitment since they want to sleep around a lot.
And if you’re hooking up with a guy, you can more or less be sure that you’re not his only sex partner.
For this reason, the biggest sign that a man is developing feelings for you is when he stops seeing other girls. That means he enjoys intimacy only with you.
8. He Spends Time With You, Even Without The Sex
The main appeal of hookups is the sex, not the companionship. So it’s quite normal for casual partners to only meet up when they want to do it.
This also makes it easier to keep their private lives separate.
Naturally, you’ll be getting the same treatment from a guy who doesn’t think of you as anything other than a hook up.
But should he have romantic feelings for you, he’ll be acting differently. He’ll want to spend time with you even when you don’t have sex.
At this time, being with you will matter more to him than getting laid.
9. He Initiates Cuddles, Hugs, And Similar Sweet Gestures
There are strict rules to enjoy casual sex. They’re mostly about not acting like a boyfriend or girlfriend towards your hook up partner.
The guy you’re sleeping with for fun knows this as well. And he will stick to the rules if he doesn’t plan to get serious.
He’ll break the rules only when he has strong feelings for you.
He’ll cuddle after sex, hug you when you meet, and do other lovey-dovey gestures.
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