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Best Ways to Hook Up With Girls Without Being Creepy

Finding hookups for girls is usually easy, but unfortunately, the same cannot be said for men.

If guys casually walk up to a girl and ask her for sex, then the majority of the time they’d get rejected.

But rejection isn’t the only thing that stops men from making a move. For the most part, it’s the fear of coming off as a creep in the process.

So if you’re wondering how to hook up with girls without being creepy then that’s what we’ll discuss in this article.

Not only will we share some practical tips to set you in the right direction, but also, talk about things you should not do during a hook up with a girl.


How To Hookups With Girls Without Being Creepy

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1. Look for Girls Who Are Into Hooking Up

First things first, even if it sounds disappointing, not every girl is into hookups. You gotta respect that.

So what to do instead? Simple – look for girls who are into casual sex.

Which brings us to the next question: How to tell if a girl likes to hook up? Well, there’s no hard and fast way to determine that.

You can either directly ask her, or use hookup sites and apps to avoid any second-guessing.

With that said, you’ll meet plenty of women on dating sites like Tinder and other platforms who claim they aren’t into hookups.

But that isn’t always the truth. They mainly say that to fend off creeps.

in reality, if they click with you then there’s a chance that you’d be fucking her brains out on the first date.

So the takeaway here is that improving your social skills and judgment can play a major role in helping you score a hookup.


2. Flirt Without Sounding Desperate for Sex

There’s a difference between convincing a girl to have sex by flirting… Or trying to get laid by being desperate for sex.

Plus, we all know, women hate men who look desperate. It shows that they lack confidence and are insecure.

Many men who do not know how to flirt with girls often end up in the latter category.

That’s why if you want to get laid learn how to ask a girl for a hookup more naturally. This would help you build some confidence and also get you out of your comfort zone.


3. Observe Her Body Language

The body language of a girl says a lot about what’s going on in her mind.

For example, if a girl is interested in you then she’d play with her hair while talking to you.

And if she’s horny, then you’d notice that she’s biting her lips or staring at you seductively. That’s basically the perfect time to pull the trigger.

Overall, there are many cues that girls leave if they’re sexually aroused and some of them are also covered in this video by Tripp Advice:

So learn to pick these up and you’d be surprised how easy initiating hookups with girls is.


4. Find Ways to Increase Sexual Tension

The higher the sexual tension, the more natural a hook up would be.

If you can make a girl feel horny enough, then there’s even a chance that she’d initiate the hookup herself.

So what’s the best way to increase sexual tension? – Simple, spend more alone time together and make her comfortable to be around you.

You obviously don’t have to go on romantic dates with her if you’re into casual sex only. Instead, invite her to your place for a drink.

After that, it doesn’t take long to get on the bed from the couch. Just act natural, flirt, and observe how she responds.

Is she locking eyes with you without uttering a word? If so, then that’s one of the biggest signs that it’s time to make your move.


5. Be Direct About Your Intentions

The best way to properly hook up is to simply be direct about your intentions.

But of course, rather than just asking her if she wants to have casual sex, you will word it differently.

It could be something like “Hey, so I think that you’re really beautiful, and although, I’m not looking for anything serious – I do think we can have some fun together. Let me know if you’re down for it!”

You can even say this to a stranger and if she says no, you can then proceed with “That’s all good, we can exchange digits in case you change your mind in the future”.

The main difference with these phrases is the way you’re saying them. Not only are you being polite, but also flattering with a compliment.

Try a variation of those on a couple of girls at different places, and monitor the results. Practice your delivery, look confident and there’s a high chance you’ll get a yes!

And if you’re conscious about rejection, you can go for funny ways to ask to hook up too.


What Should You Not Do During A Hook Up With A Girl?

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1. Never Skip Foreplay

Just because a girl has agreed to hook up with you, doesn’t mean that you directly jump for the main course.

We cannot emphasize how important foreplay is in order to make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.

Before you thrust into her, spend some time making out. Show her what your tongue can do. And only thrust in when she’s in her excited phase.

If you try rushing for the intercourse, then there’s even a chance that she’d feel overwhelmed and stop you altogether.


2. Openly Communicate with Her

Lack of communication is one of the biggest mistakes you can make while hooking up with girls.

Unless you two have amazing sexual chemistry (which is highly unlikely), the experience would be pretty awkward for both of you.

On the other hand, communicating would help you learn more about the sexual expectations of one another.

For instance, she can tell you if there’s a specific position she likes. Or maybe if she doesn’t want to be touched on a particular spot.

Moreover, communication can also help the two of you overcome nervousness. Which in turn, would make the hookup less awkward.


3. Don’t Try Unprotected Sex

Lastly, it’s pretty obvious that if a girl is hooking up with you, then she’s expecting that you’ll use protection.

So never try having unprotected sex with a hookup partner as that’s not only creepy, but you’ll also violate her trust.

Even if she says it’s fine (which is never happening), always use condoms. Nothing is more important than sexual health, period.




  • Tom Phillips

    Tom Phillips is a Dating Coach for World Hookup Guides who has been helping men to succeed with women for almost 7 years. His coaching career began with one-on-one coaching and has gradually evolved into seminars. He has dated successfully dated several women over the years and now shares strategies and techniques on several national publications in addition to World Hookup Guides.