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Can A Man Sleep With A Woman Without Developing Feelings?

You’ve finally found the man that makes you feel good. He’s your person, the one you want to have more than just casual sex. But he seems emotionally detached.

You should know that is possible for a man to sleep with a woman without developing feelings. There are even cases in which a man sleeps with a woman for years without developing feelings.

The good news is there are ways to make him emotionally attached to you.

Every man is different, but all of them have their “weak spot”. And no, we aren’t talking about their sack.

Behind that rough and rugged look, he probably has some vulnerabilities that you could target. But the first thing you need to do for that is to create an emotional connection.

So in this article, we’ll first start by looking at how to get a man to be emotionally attached. After that, we’ll discuss how to make him fall for you.

Let’s dive straight into it!


How To Get A Man Emotionally Attached

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1) Show Him That You Care

Women don’t fall for too caring men because often make them look desperate. However, the same cannot be said for men.

You’d be surprised to see the impact a slight display of care will make on him.

Even if he doesn’t show it, he is probably thinking about it. And if he was rude to you before, he’ll probably be nicer to you afterward.

Keep it up and you’d be surprised how fast he’d get attached to you.


2) You Make Him Feel Special

If you know how to play your cards, even the toughest man can get emotionally attached to you. The researchers from conducted a survey that men fall faster in love than women.

If you have any male friends, he probably tells you every day how he’s in love with a new girl.

And while some may label it as a crush, all it takes is a bit of reciprocation to form an emotional connection.

So if you want a man to get emotionally attached to you, make him feel special.


3) Make Him Feel Emotionally Safe

If you’re trying to court a man with a macho mindset, then the first step is to make him feel emotionally safe.

Let him know that it’s alright to open up to you.

It might take a while, but if you engage him in regular conversations, he’ll slip in no time. And once he starts confiding in you for emotional support, consider him yours.


4)  Accept Him For Who He Is

You’re often going to find “bad boys” out there with bad habits. Some of them may be party freaks, while others would generally be assholes.

While we don’t recommend you to associate yourself with such a guy, it’s easy to win over this type of man.

Note that if you spend your time trying to change him, you’ll be working on a lost cause. So instead of changing him, accept him for who he is.

Most importantly, bad guys love innocent girls. Even if you have a Ph.D. in blowjobs, he doesn’t have to know about that.


How To Make Him Fall In Love With You

It takes some effort from your side to make him fall for you. If you let it to chances, you might sleep with him for a long time, and still, he is in just for the sex.

Below are some tips to make him closer to you…


1) Know About His Vulnerabilities

A way to a man’s heart is to know his vulnerabilities. Even if men feel insecure about something they often wouldn’t share it.

Whether it’s a physical characteristic they don’t like, or it’s a certain trait they lack, learn about it.

The best way to make them open up is by spending more time with them. Do that and everything will act out naturally.

Once they start sharing their deepest secrets and insecurities with you, know that they’re slowly falling for you.


2) Tease Him And Keep Things Playful

You can either send him flirtatious text messages or show some cleavage. There are many ways to tease a guy.

But the key is to keep things playful. Use your feminine charm and slowly seduce him.

In fact, even if you send him a hot picture at night, he’ll keep thinking about you till the morning (or until he jacks off).

Or you can slowly come close for a kiss and switch to his cheeks instead.

All this teasing would make him want you even more. And he’ll also be getting constant hints to remain invested in you.


3) Play Hard to Get

This is probably the oldest trick in the book, but it works to this day. If you want to make him fall in love with you, then let him chase after you.

Even if you slept with him already a few times, you can slowly start to play hard to get. That way you can build on the emotional connection while making him craving for more sex with you.

When he starts showing signs of romantic involvement, don’t go head over heels. But don’t ignore him too much either that he starts going after other women.

Balance is the key when it comes to playing hard to get.


4) Avoid Being Friends with Benefits

Coming from our previous point, there’s one thing you need to avoid at all costs and that’s casual sex.

Once you start hooking up with a guy, sex is the only thing he’ll has on his mind. Basically you’ve set the stage for a friend with benefits relationship without realizing it.

To avoid that, it’s important to make men work for sex. Because while they’re trying to bed you, they’ll likely fall in love with you.

But if you directly give them the ultimate reward, it will become more difficult for you to win their love.


Do Guys Catch Feelings After A Hook Up?

Whether guys catch feelings after hookups or not depends on a couple of things:

  • How easily they get attached.
  • Frequency of the hookups.
  • Their current relationship status.

There are also other factors like how good was the sex. But that’s more of a physical than an emotional aspect.

And if you still can’t find a guy committing to a relationship with you, we suggest reading: Why Do Guys Just Want To Hook Up With Me? 10 Reasons Why

The answer isn’t as straightforward as we would like because situations and men aren’t alike. But generally speaking, a guy can catch feelings for you after hooking up.


Make Him Feel For You

To catch feelings for someone, you need to be attracted to them emotionally.

Because physical feelings will most likely settle down for some time when they hook up the next time.

This is why if you want the guy to fall for you, stop being available for hookups. Because the easier you’re to bed, the harder it will be to make him fall.

And if you’re hooking up with someone who has a girlfriend, things can get a bit messy.

They might leave their partner for you, but that also comes with its own complications. And in general, such guys can often be difficult to win over.

So do you want your hookup partner to catch feelings for you?

Follow what we discussed above. Start by making them feel attached by creating an emotional connection and the rest will happen on its own.




  • Ashley Miller

    Ashley Miller is a Dating Coach and author for She teaches women how to deal with self-esteem and insecurities issues and how to flirt, have casual hookups, or get into a serious relationship. She has many years of personal coaching experience and is particularly passionate about helping people to find dating success regardless of race or gender. You will find her cooking delicious pies, enjoying a book, or playing skying in her free time.