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How To Get A Girl At A Party To Sleep With You: 9 Tips

Get A Girl At A Party To Sleep With You

Going to parties is a sure-fire way of meeting and potentially sleeping with hot girls.

Note that we said potentially because although the chances are high, you still have to play your cards right.

To master getting girls at parties to sleep with you, it’s important to learn to have a good time, approach naturally, and scale sexual tension (flirting).

When done right, you’ll get laid at parties regularly. Below you can find useful tips to increase your chances to get lucky.


9 Tips To Get Girls To Sleep With You At Parties


1. Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

First things first. There is nothing worst to see guys at a party sitting in one corner the whole time. That screams insecurity and lack of social skills.

No wondering why the girls don’t show any interest in them.

If you want to get noticed at parties, you then learn to step out of your comfort zone. Mingle around and be friends with people in your surroundings. And not only girls.

This would show that you’re a confident and friendly guy. Indirectly it’ll help you catch the attention of the girls around you.


2. Take Your Time to Have FUN

The whole idea of attending a party is to have fun, and men often seem to forget that. This is the main reason why men aren’t able to get a girl at a party.

Women can easily notice if your only intention is to get laid. You’d be so invested in finding that opportunity to bed a girl which makes you look desperate.

Don’t forget that unlike men, who are usually ready to have sex any chance they get, women are quite picky.

Before sleeping with a man, they often judge him based on his personality and this study further backs that up.

So before jumping towards sex, learn to enjoy the process to have fun at a party. You’ll get what you want in no time.


3. Participate in Social Activities

Another way to get noticed by women in parties is to participate more in social activities.

You’ll probably find plenty of people dancing or playing cards or even truth or dare – especially if it’s a college party.

All these activities can act as a mutual ground for you to talk to girls who are also participating.

So in general, this can be great for people who lack confidence and are often wondering how to break the ice.

And if you’re good at a game then you might even impress a few ladies. But don’t sweat it even if you aren’t – you’ll learn over time.


4. Make Yourself Look Approachable

Your sense of dressing can play a major role in making you look more approachable.

This is why, if you’re going to a party, you might want to rethink wearing your grandpa’s shirt that he bought 10 years ago.

You don’t have to look too fancy, but don’t make yourself bland and boring either. Wear clothes according to the occasion and in this case, something more casual.

It could even be a simple graphic t-shirt paired with a denim jacket and jeans.

Similarly, no matter what you do, don’t spend all your time on the phone.

We understand you might be feeling anxious with so many people around, but using the phone too much wouldn’t really help you out.

It would give the impression that you’re disinterested in the people in your surroundings. And even if a girl is dropping a hint to you, the chances are that you would miss it.

Lastly, try wearing a smile on your face, or at least, don’t look like you’re planning to kill someone.


5. Don’t Drink More Than you Can Handle

One of the biggest mistakes men often make at parties is that they drink too much.

There’s a common misconception that the more you drink, the higher the chances of getting laid. But that’s hardly the case.

Even if you get lucky and a girl decides to have sex with you, you’d hardly remember it. So in short, it would kill the experience.

In most cases, you’d probably end up embarrassing yourself by doing stupid shit that you’d regret later.

Note that we aren’t asking you not to get tipsy. Getting a few shots with a girl can be a great way to build sexual tension.

In addition, it is also one of the best tricks to get a girl to sleep with you and to calm your nerves.

What we’re saying is that you shouldn’t drink to a point that the experience becomes uncomfortable for both of you.


6. Don’t Pick the Wrong Girl

lonely girl at a party who want to hook up

We know, some girls at parties are downright sexy and can give you an instant boner. Unfortunately, most of them are already taken for obvious reasons.

So before approaching a girl, take a good look at her surroundings.

Do you see a man with her who she’s being overly touchy with? If so, then he might be her boyfriend.

In this case, you should find another girl to flirt with if you don’t want to get in trouble.

Also, avoid girls with too many girlfriends unless you feel confident in your abilities to seduce her while keeping at bay her friends.

Go for girls who are alone or have one girlfriend max. And in case she has only male friends, befriends the guys first.

Naturally, if the guys approved you to be part of their pack, you’ll get introduced to their female friends.


7. Make the First Move

Well, you don’t need to be Sherlock to understand that the majority of the girls prefer guys who make the first move.

Girls use this as a test to evaluate a guy’s confidence which is an important indicator in mating.

Just start a conversation naturally by complimenting her for her dress or ask to dance. Just don’t overthink.

See her as someone interesting that you would like to know rather than just a hookup. Your set mind is essential to avoid being nervous.

In this video, you can find more conversations starters for bars and clubs…


8. Don’t Try Too Hard to Impress

Women indeed love being desired by men, but there’s a difference between flirting and trying too hard.

If you’re talking to a girl, don’t sing the praises of her beauty every chance you get.

Sure, throwing in a few sexual innuendos every now and then is fine, but try carrying the conversation naturally.

If you want things to move forward, then you first need to build attraction. Don’t show desperation because that can be a major turn-off for women.

To learn more check out our last article on how to flirt with a girl face to face so you won’t embarrass yourself.


9. Learn to Build Sexual Tension

Once you feel that you’re hitting it off well with a girl, it’s time to work more towards building sexual tension.

One of the most effective ways of doing that is by touching her depending on how reciprocative she is to your flirting.

We’ve covered the best places to touch a woman in detail, but in short, you can start with her upper back or her arms.

Make sure to be extra careful here because you don’t want to look too creepy, be natural in your intention.

For example, touch her arm gently while talking closely or touch the hairs while complimenting her.


10. Offer to Take Her to a Quiet Place

After she starts flirting back, it is the perfect time to ask if she wants to go to a quieter place with you.

Unless she’s dumb, she’d realize that you’re sexually interested in her. And if she accepts your offer, then consider the deal sealed.

If there’s an empty bedroom available at the party venue take her there. Otherwise, find a place to have car sex.

In the case, there are no bedrooms or you don’t have a car, there are several places to make out without getting caught.

Just make sure to take things slow and avoid being aggressive. Start with a kiss, see how she reacts and carry things from there.

The more time you spend on foreplay, the hornier she would feel and the higher the chances she’d have sex.


Easier Ways To Hook Up With Girls Without Going To A Party

guy hooking up with a girl after a party

Parties can be a great place to find hookups, but at the end of the day, your confidence and social skills play a key role in it.

So if you are socially anxious, you’ll have a hard time getting laid with girls at a party. And in case you don’t have any friends to go out with, it can feel lonely and demotivating.

An easier way to sleep with girls without having to go out in social places is to sign-up with a popular hookup site.

Obviously, the girls that you meet online on such platforms are horny and easily approachable. And you don’t have to deal with complicated social interactions like in clubs and bars.

Simply send an opening message and then start teasing her over text until she’ll ask you to come over for some.

At the end of the day, whether you prefer looking for hookups at a party or online – the decision entirely rests in your hands.




  • Tom Phillips

    Tom Phillips is a Dating Coach for World Hookup Guides who has been helping men to succeed with women for almost 7 years. His coaching career began with one-on-one coaching and has gradually evolved into seminars. He has dated successfully dated several women over the years and now shares strategies and techniques on several national publications in addition to World Hookup Guides.