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How To Get A Girl To Have Sex With You: 8 Steps

Get A Girl To Have Sex With You

Even though guys may be okay with being directly asked for sex, girls aren’t. Just walking up to a girl and asking for sex will surely result in rejection.

They don’t open their legs simply because someone calls them pretty or because you’re desperate for sex. It takes a lot more than that!

If you feel attracted to a girl, you need to go behind the physical lust. You need to treat her as a human being, not an object.

Start having a conversation, get to know her, and then go for the flirting. In other words, get attracted to her brain as well as her body.

To make things easier, we’ve broken down into seven simple steps how to get any girl to have sex with you.


1. Find The Right Girl

Obviously, you want to go for open-minded girls who are looking for a good time. You can find plenty of them on hook up apps and sites.


2. Start A Conversation

While making small talk is good to break the ice, it’s not enough to create a connection with someone.

You need to start a meaningful conversation with a girl since you want her to have sex with you. She has to feel that you genuinely have an interest in her as a person and aren’t simply lusting.

If she feels for an instant that you don’t value her as an individual but want just to get laid, she’ll lose interest in you. That is to say, you’ve got to make her believe that you’re drawn to her personality.

Therefore you should reach out and have a light yet meaningful talk with the girl you fancy. Find out her hobbies, interests, dream for the features… And expand on them.

Do you want to know the best time to learn about her? While having food and drinks which brings us to the second step.


3. Invite Her To Eat And Drink With You

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Are you after a girl for sex? Or are you hoping for something serious?

Well, whichever your goal is, you have to invite her out to eat and drink.

The reason is sharing food with someone is always been a way to create a connection. And drinking alcohol helps to open her up about personal matters.

As we’ve explained earlier, you want to learn as much as you can about her to create familiarity.

At the same time, open up about yourself too. Because hardly a girl is going to have sex with you if she sees you as a stranger.

Make sure to take her out to a nice restaurant for dinner. And pay the bill. That way she’ll want to pay you back, guess with what.


4. Flirt With Her

Once you get familiar with each other, it’s time to get the girl into a sexy mood.

We’ve already talked in length about how to flirt with a girl in person and over text. But in essence, you need to let her know that you’re sexually interested in her.

Go at her pace, and remember to adapt your flirting style to match hers. Otherwise, you might scare off.

For example, if she’s a reserved girl, be patient in your approach and slowly seduce her with your words.

Yet, if she’s outgoing, flirting aggressively by touching her may lead to sex.

At the end of the day, what truly matters is that you make her feel sexually desired and wanted by you.


5. Look Her In The Eyes

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Girls feel sexually attracted to confident guys. So looking her in the eyes when having conversations and flirting is not an option.

Also, women can’t resist a man who gives full focus and attention.

Casanova managed to sleep with hundreds of girls simply because he was giving total attention. He never took his eyes off women when he was with them.


6. Kiss Her

Now that you have set the mood with a girl and established a comfortable connection, it’s time to kiss her.

But since this will be your first time locking lips, it’s crucial that you make a good impression.

Sloppy or stinky kisses may potentially turn her off and make her leave. As such, you must do what you can to ensure that she enjoys and will want more from you.

For this reason, you must:

  • Have fresh breath – Keep gum or mint on you at all times.
  • Build up the moment to kissCreate sexual tension to naturally lead up to the kiss.
  • Check if she’s fine with it – Confirm through body language or words that your kiss will be welcomed.


7. Touch Her

Obviously, the final push needed to get a girl to have sex is to touch her. When it’s done right, she’ll get extremely horny and want to have sex.

Ideally, you should touch her slowly in safe areas and watch how she responds. If she doesn’t push you away, that’s the sign that you can continue.

Aside from that, her body and facial reactions will let you know if she’s feeling good under your hands. In this situation, you’ll have the greatest chance of success when you target the typical places that turn on girls.

On that note, you also have to remember to control your strength. You wouldn’t want to hurt her by accident.


8. Take Her Back To Your Place Or Go For Car Sex

When you come to this point, you’ll both be horny and eager to get it on in the sack.

So you’re probably thinking of where you should go from here since you’re not used to this kind of thing.

The safest option for you is to either take her back to your place or go to hers. In case you choose the former, make sure to clean up and prepare your house before leaving.

In case her or your place isn’t possible, you can always pick a place for car sex.




  • Tom Phillips

    Tom Phillips is a Dating Coach for World Hookup Guides who has been helping men to succeed with women for almost 7 years. His coaching career began with one-on-one coaching and has gradually evolved into seminars. He has dated successfully dated several women over the years and now shares strategies and techniques on several national publications in addition to World Hookup Guides.