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Paris Sex Guide For Singles And Couples

If you’re looking for sex in Paris, this guide has all the info that you need whether you’re a single or a couple.

This guide will show you the best places where to find sex and how to get laid in Paris. But also you’ll get an insight into the hookup culture and no string attached relationships.

Read more if you would like to have sexual encounters, regular hookups, or find a sex partner in Paris.


This Paris Sex Guide was last updated on June 2024

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Known as the City of Love, Paris is not only the capital of France but also one of the most visited tourist destinations in the world.

Many of those tourists hop on to local hook up sites and apps to connect with its horny population of more than 2 million people.

And if you don’t fancy online hookups, then in this guide we’ll also take you through the best places to get laid, tips to play safe and much more!

If you’ve any questions to ask, don’t hesitate to use the form at the bottom.


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Girls in Paris

Girls in Paris are highly sexual as they enjoy experimenting and having sex.

But don’t expect it to be so easy to hook up with local girls. You might have better luck with ladies on holiday.


Looks And Physical Appearance

Paris women are a pleasure to look at. Not only do they have cute faces, but also nice bodies thanks to their healthy diet. In fact, you’d hardly find any fat girls in this city.

They have a wonderful sense of fashion that isn’t too overpowering, but rather, blends perfectly with their fair complexion.

Most women in Paris dye their hair, but the natural color is usually brown. And when you’ll hear their sexy accent, it’s hard to resist their charm.

All in all, the women here are the epitome of perfection, and their hourglass figures are sure to leave you thinking about them for days.


Attitude and Values

Contrary to popular belief, Parisian girls are not all wealthy fashionista’s who stick their noses up at men who try to flirt with them.

Instead, they’re laid back, charming and very easy to talk to.

As long as you’re charming, witty and can hold a good conversation, you’ve got a chance. Oh, and you must be confident and dress well.

But don’t think it’ll be easy to have sex with a local girl. The majority of girls here see sexual relationships as a long-term affair rather than a quick hookup.

A thing that French girls in Paris can’t tolerate is timid and introverted guys.

Instead, they prefer confident guys who can approach and start a simple conversation in French. Even if your French isn’t awesome, she’ll find this very cute.

Yet, don’t invite them to some cheap place, women in Paris have standards…



Sexually speaking, girls in Paris are very passionate. You only need to get talking to a girl during the day and woo her by showcasing your cultural knowledge and “joie de vivre”.

If you can manage that then there’s no reason you can’t create mutual attraction and intimacy.

That all said, you will need to work hard if you want to pick up French girls in this city.

They have a lot of choices and they love to be chased. This is why it’s a great idea to brush up on your basics about how to hook up with a girl.

Keep in mind that local French ladies know how to flirt with men making the boundaries between sex and friendship look unclear.

This means that you might take a girl out for dinner but get no sexual action afterward.


Summary of Paris Girls

  • 3 traits: Girls in Paris are passionate, sophisticated, and interesting to talk to.
  • 2 tips: Be charming and romantic at times to seduce local girls effectively.
  • 1 fact: Parisian girls are very passionate.


Men in Paris

Parisian men know how to live their life. They love art, good cuisine, good cars, fashion, great music, sexy women – and romance.


Looks And Physical Apperance

French men are considered to be elegant with a simple, yet, stylish sense of dressing.

They normally live an active and healthy lifestyle and you can see that from their builds. In fact, most of them are either skinny or muscular.

Their usual hair color is either black or blonde, with the majority having green eyes.


Attitude and Values

It’s straightforward to meet guys in Paris as they’re pretty easy-going and expressive.

Here, single men hang out at the cafes and bars, but you will also find them lounging in the parks or sitting by the banks of the Seine.

The galleries are great places to meet men, too. All you need to do is catch their eye and they’ll initiate a conversation about a painting you’re both looking at.



Parisian men love to chase women and flirt. This is the main reason why it’s really important that you visit Paris with the mindset that the man is meant to work hard to woo you.

They love a bit of mystery and they don’t necessarily appreciate a woman who is too clingy. If you make it too easy for them, they will get bored.

With that said, you should follow these general seductive tips to attract men physically to be irresistible.

Once you get under the sheets, expect local guys to be passionate. And try to be open-minded because most French men love to experiment sexually.


Summary of Paris Men

  • 3 traits: Men in Paris are passionate, open-minded sexually, and romantic.
  • 2 tips: Let them chase you and don’t be too easy.
  • 1 fact: Men here love to live life to the fullest.


Sex Life And Hookup Culture


Looking to get laid in Paris? The good news is that Paris is an open-minded city forward casual sex.

There are red light districts, nightclubs, bars, and sex clubs where people meet to find sex partners.

Yet, don’t expect to get laid the same day you meet someone new. Sex is seen as a need complementary to a romantic or sexual relationship rather than an act to itself.

Meaning hardly you’ll get the chance for a nightstand, but you’ll have several opportunities to find friends with benefits and sex buddies.


Overall Mindset About Casual Sex

Steamy, erotic encounters in Paris are ingrained in the Parisian culture.

If two people feel as though something physical is going to happen, it’s natural that they would follow through with it.

In fact, casual sex isn’t a dirty word here in Paris. However, you might have to spend time getting to know someone before having sex.


Swinger Activities In Paris

The French are open to experimentation when it comes to sex (just check out some of the old French movies of the sixties!).

And this means there are lots of private sex clubs in Paris. Many of them are located in dimly-lit backstreets, such as the infamous Les Chandelles.

Make sure to check out the dress code for any swinger clubs you plan to visit. Even better would be to visit a club with friends that live in Paris.

If you don’t know anyone here, you can meet like-minded people on sites like Adult Friend Finder. There you can get in contact with the local community that will invite you to the private sex parties.


Is It Easy To Hook Up In Paris?

For women, it’s easy to hook up with French men in Paris. Just walk around and won’t take long before someone make an advance.

But for foreign men, it takes an effort to hook up with French girls unless they go for tourist females.

If you’re new in the city, sign up with a popular adult dating site where you’ll connect with horny people.


Where To Meet People For Sex in Paris

We all know there are common places to find local hookups in any city. Online, sex clubs and nightclubs are the most common venues.

And Paris isn’t that different from the typical international city.

So let’s see the best places where you can hook up in Paris…


1. Sex Dating Online

Hooking up online is one of the easiest ways to get laid in Paris.

Sites like Adult Friend Finder make it easier than ever for you to connect with the horny locals and tourists.

And you don’t have to worry about going on fancy dates either, as the platform is all about having casual sex.


2. Sex Clubs: Swinging And Sex Parties

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Les Chandelles sex club

You’ll have easy time meeting swingers in Paris simply because the city has one of the top swinging scenes in Europe known as “Prive Libertins.”

It’s pretty easy to find a sex party in Paris thanks to the active local community. And there are also several swinger clubs for meetups:

Les Chandelles at Rue Thérèse. This is one of the most popular swinger clubs in Paris.

The best part about this club is that you can find tourists here from all over the world, so you never know who might be looking for some fun.

For couples, door charges are around €24-€90. For women is less than €50 and €50-€100 for men.

Le Mask at the 2nd arrondissement – This libertine club offers several dark corners where to watch and to be watched. Single men aren’t allowed.

Le We Club at Rue Quincampoix. Also known as the ‘Yes’ club is another place where guys and girls can truly get wild.

The entry for ladies and couples here is free, while single guys pay €105.

Quai 17 at Quai de l’Ois. Being one of the largest sex clubs in Paris, you are surely going to love partying at this nightspot.

There is even a cinema where pornographic films are played. The door charges range anywhere between €20-€105.


3. Bars And Nightclubs

If you want to enjoy the sinful nightlife in Paris, bars and nightclubs are also good places to hook up.

Here are the best bars and nightclubs in Paris to get laid:

La Bellevilloise at Rue Boyer. This is one of the busiest clubs in Paris, especially during the weekend.

This club attracts hordes of tourists from around the globe, so there’s a great chance you might find someone for casual sex here.

Supersonic at Rue Biscornet. You are almost always going to find stunning Parisian girls and guys here.

Wanderlust at Quai d’Austerlitz. Being one of the favorite super clubs of Parisians, you can always expect to have a blast here.

It’s a great place to mingle around and find some casual sex.

Rex Club at Boulevard Poissonnière. Huge dance floor where to pick up French girls (for guys) or attract French men (for girls).

Boum Boum at Avenue de Friedland. As the name of the club suggests, if you want some “Boum Boum”, then you can find good company here.

Boum Boum at 3 Imp. This is a great place to meet cougars in Paris, but a bit expensive as you need to pay 18 euros at the entrance.

Check out our list of questions to ask an older woman to sleep with you without wasting time.

The major nightlife areas are Pigalle, Bastille, Austerlitz, The Latin Quartes and Grands Boulevards.


4. Strip Clubs

In Paris, you’ll find several strip clubs, especially around Pigalle and Rue Saint-Denis.

Yet, Keep in mind those places a pretty expensive, with cover charges starting at 30 Euros.

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Secret Square gentleman club

Whether you are looking for a simple lap dance, or something more, here are some of the best strip clubs in Paris:

Pink Paradise – One of the most famous gentleman clubs in Paris thanks to the beautiful girls and entraining shows.

The entry fee is 50 Euro during the week and 100 Euro on Saturday night.

Whisper Club Paris – If you can’t afford Pink Paradise, a cheaper alternative is Whisper Club. You’ll find the girls being beautiful and welcoming.

The entry is only 30 Euro and a private strip start at 80 Euro.

Theatre Chochotte – This club is an excellent place for couples who are looking for a classy but intimate show. Plenty of nudity and eroticism.

Secret Square – If you’re into brought strip clubs, Secret Square is for you. Not in the safest area of the city, the girls are hands-on.

Instead of spending a fortune in the strip clubs around Paris, you can have naughty performances online on sites like Strip Chat.

And masturbate from the comfort of your home.


5. Transsexual And Transgenders

If you want to mingle with transvestites and transsexuals in Paris, there are several G/L/B bars up in the Marais and in Bois de Boulogne.

But keep an eye open because these areas have a lot of prostitution too.

Some of the top trans venues in Paris are:

La Mutinerie – This place supports queer women, trans and non-binary. There is dancing and shows to enjoy.

Club Le Rouge – Every Sunday they host a transgender party called Escualita (see video below).

Michou – Not a bar or club but a well-known cabaret show with beautiful trans.

If these places do not work out for you, then you can always use popular tranny hook up sites to find casual sex.


6. BDSM Clubs

Want to truly satisfy your kinks and fetishes by finding a bondage partner?

You are in luck because you can find several people in Paris that enjoy this lifestyle.

One of the best communities to find partners for erotic BDSM and sex dates is You’ll find play partners here to satisfy all your fetishes.


Sugar Daddies & Sugar Babies in Paris

Paris is the ideal city for finding companionship in the form of a sugar baby/daddy relationship.

Why? Because the city is home to the biggest universities in France. Plenty of young girls looking for sugar daddies.

And because Paris is the center of France’s wealth, there are also plenty of wealthy men looking to spoil young girls.

In fact, many such relationships here in Paris are between students and senior men.

The idea is that the gentleman pays for the hard-up student’s tuition fees and loans, while the student returns the man’s favor in the form of companionship and intimacy.

Just imagine spending time with a great partner without the hassles of a regular relationship. No drama, no muggings, and no unreasonable demands.

The best way to find a relationship with benefits in Paris is by using sugar dating sites. Just create a profile by being honest about what you’re looking for, and start contacting potential partners.


Best Places for Outdoor Sex

Looking for some safe outdoor spots to make love in well…the city of love?

Here are some of the best outdoor places to have sex in Paris:

Wood of Vincennes – One of the largest parks in Paris where you can find countless hidden spots to have fun.

Nature Trail – A huge forest-like trail where you can often find people making out. So you can find a corner and do your own thing.

Parc Monceau – This park is famous for its greenery that you can hide behind for a steamy session.

Parc des Buttes-Chaumont – During the day this park is crowded, but at night, it’s a great place to make love.

parc dechuttes

If you enjoy the risk of getting caught while making out, have a look at our list of the best places for outdoor sex.


Hostels And Hotels For Sex in Paris

Hostels can be a great place to crash for solo travelers to party and enjoy one-night stands.

Hotels are more suitable for couples and mature singles who want to make the moment as intimate as possible.

Here are 3 best hostels to party in Paris:

Generator Paris – Ideal for solo travelers who want to get laid
St. Christopher’s Inn Gare du Nord – Best to party
Les Piaules – Top couple choice.

On the other hand, the best “sexy” hotels in Paris are:

La Fabe Hotel – Intimate boutique hotel with only 17 guest rooms.
Champs Elysees Plaza Hotel – Famous for erotic and quirky décor.
Elysees Regencia Hotel – Stylish and affordable.


Safe Sex and Clinics in Paris

Hook-ups can be fun, but the last thing you want is to contract STDs and to give it to someone else. So it’s important to get yourself checked frequently.

While in Paris you can visit the American Hospital or the Hertford British Hospital.

We hope this sex guide to Paris is been informative enough. Have fun!



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    We are born and bred Californians who love socializing, adventures, and sex. Being active in the ethical non-monogamy communities here locally and online, it's only natural for us to start this site to provide a 100% honest source of information about the sexual lifestyle in some of the world’s liberated adult destinations. We spend most of our free time traveling to hook up with singles, couples, and people of all genders around the world.